I'm not sure anymore.. In the past I wouldn't want to do anything that could hurt someone's relationship... but if one of them's not into it physically anymore isn't it already kinda over for the great sex part at least? And would I really be the problem or would it be the person in the actual relationship?
2007-09-18 22:50:27 · 24 answers · asked by Sabby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You looking for someone on here to condone an intention on your part to become the third party in a marriage?? Sorry, no can do! If someone's not "into" their marriage anymore, they should get out of it! Then and only then are they available for YOU!
2007-09-18 22:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by cautious 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Frankly speaking it is wrong to be the other woman. You can't be blamed for loving a married man and it is normal for the heart. The question here is, is the guy really love you or just want to consumate sex with you coz he's on the rock with his wife?
Think of getting off such kind of affair lady coz you will encounter more problems in the future. If he's divorce then go for it.
Hope and pray soon you will have a peace of mind lady...
2007-09-18 23:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by poorguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being another woman you are as bad as the cheater--the guy should close one door before opening another--and you should at least get respect and a committment from a guy you are serious with. The "other woman" is just another easy piece of meat--not treated well and living a lie--not good at all. Yes you are the problem if you allow what you describe--what if your man were with another slutty woman?? You'd be pi**ed off. So find a guy of your own and have a real nice meaningful relationship of your own.
2007-09-18 22:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you an answer to this one. Dont sink so freaking low. My parents divorced because of this.. and i have absolutely no respect for ''other womens''. You get chastised, ruining other people's family and let me ask you, what if ure in her position instead? Even if it doesnt work out, at least the guy should have the guts to break it with the wife first. You meddling while they're still together.. it inflicts wound on people around u and the family of the couple. Its emberassing, imorale, and what makes u think he wont cheat on you as well? Good luck sorting it out. I hope you make a good decision
2007-09-18 22:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Serendipity 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Short term pleasure over long term consequences my dear. If you have any hope for lasting love, I wouldn't want to put that kind of energy out into the world. What goes around comes around. Every marriage has stale points. But thats what commitment is about, overcoming those stale points.
2007-09-18 23:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺☻ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel....The thing is that for him to even be looking at other women only indicates to me that he is not happy with whom he is with, because if you truely love someone there is no room for anyone else in your life....
What is he willing to do about it though is the question, is there children involved if there is, then I am afraid they will always come first and for the sake of them would not leave the wife, if theres no children then you need to know where you stand....Love is found in strange places and awkward timing....
I wish you all the best, hope it works out for u.
2007-09-18 23:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm yes it is VERY wrong and also disrespectful to your self, why would you want someone elses man? Cant you go find one that is single? Sure maybe something in their relationship is lacking but it is never ok to cheat, if someone is so unhappy that they need to go find someone else to be "happy" with then they should have the decency to break up with their partner.
2007-09-18 22:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no it's not wrong. It's skanky. Find someone who is available. If their not into the marriage they should end it. You know how many people say "I'm going to get a divorce" but then keep the girl on the side till she gets it through her thick head that she's just an easy lay????
2007-09-18 22:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by La Dee Da 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Of course its wrong to be the other woman. You are potentially crushing the heart of a fellow woman.
Imagine you are with a guy you adore and cherish and you find he doesnt like you in bed and is sleeping around with some other mole.
It would hurt.
Havent you heard the saying "Do onto other what you wish them to do to you?" gosh.
2007-09-18 22:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah Darling 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in the shoes of the person who would be the most hurt by selfish actions then I don't think you would be able to make light of something you know isn't really right.
2007-09-18 23:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋