I have been sleeping with this guy for around 3 years now but there is no commitment between us, I fell in love with him the second I met him and even though I want something more from him, I've kinda settled for the sex....He says things that make me think there is something there but then treats me like crap the next time I see him. He was hurt by an ex gf and pretty much has issues with females in general. Should I tell him how I feel, slap him around the head or just try and move on and forget the last 3yrs of my life???
2007-09-18 22:04:43 · 14 answers · asked by Riley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't slap him, all love affairs need to have honest chats now and then. Just tell him you want to take your relationship to a different level, and ask if he is willing to come along.
2007-09-18 22:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I feel you should tell him how I feel, slap him around the head or just try and move on and forget the last 3yrs of your life... Its called salvaging... So only thing you should do now is move on...By doing that you are preventing him from hurting you anymore.
Forget Forgive and move on....You will surely get another decent guy.....
All the best for a fresh romance
2007-09-19 05:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve so much better than this - don't settle for anything. It'll be very difficult but I really think you should move on. I know how hard it is to be in this situation, especially as you love him, but he doesn't have respect for you. You could try talking to him, but I don't think things will change (believe me I've been there!). Don't slap him around the head...have the moral high ground and just move on. He will regret losing you one day. Good luck and be brave.
2007-09-19 05:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To love some one it doesnt take any thing, you love him and you know that , just try to explain him that you are not his ex so request him to treat you as a different identity , dont worry the bad phase will vanish one day and there will be a velly of followers waiting for you
2007-09-19 05:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by Vikram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the EXACT same situation
also fell in love with him the second i saw him
except the three years but a bit less
basically he just broke up with 2 yr gf and doesnt want to commit for a long long time but wants to be with me just for the u no, which i am fine with but im in love with him too lol
i cant help you on this one i myself posted this question to see if anyone could help lol
goodluck
2007-09-19 05:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap him up-side of the head then tell him how you feel, This should get his attention
2007-09-19 05:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by x x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know this guy!
You need to get as far away from him as poss.
If he won't leave you alone tell him you love him and you want to have his babys. He will run a mile!
2007-09-19 05:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SORRY,he is not at a point in his life in which he is ready to settle like you are,yeah maybe its time to move on
2007-09-19 05:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by jmcslob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lay all of your cards on the table. If he feels the same way then honestly is a great start. If he doesn't feel the same way as you then at least you will know..... and at least you tried...
2007-09-19 05:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like me with a gal i had for a year. we always ended up in bed every date. i finally asked to break up coz i can't really have a relationship with her coz everytime both of us get together, we juz wanna f*** each other off.
2007-09-19 05:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by sydneybeach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋