Yesterday i have quarrel with my mom and it has occurred a couple of times....I told her to go to hell and die as early as possible and she said the same thing to me...It was like hitting the nail on my head and i felt so frustrated and sickening and heart pounding...I can no longer bear with her as my health was badly hurt by her attitude..And she's got some mental problems too, which i told her to go see doctor but she never listened...So after so many times' contemplation, i've come to the conclusion that it's time to move on and to take my own pace without her, towards the end of the road...Life is so unbearable and without her affecting my emotions and decisions, from now on i'll continue to move on in a new light...
2007-09-18 21:36:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think you are been a little selfish if you said nasty things to her first she is ovbousily going to say things back. She maybe didnt mean them and only said them in defence. She is your mum at the end of the day and you should love her no matter what happens. Why dont you just spend time away. Have a little break and think about how you feel. You would feel worse if something bad haapens and you never got the chance to say sorry or tell her you love her.
2007-09-18 22:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Carlie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you feel that your relationship with ;your mother has come to the end. There is nothing like the relationship between a mother and child-although, I know that relationship can be strained at times. Sometimes, you just have to distance yourself from each other for a time to heal. Please, for your own sake, talk to someone about this, anyone that you trust. You have to heal yourself, then maybe you can help your mother to find the help she needs as well. Good luck
2007-09-18 23:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by WVPV07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are joking right?
It's a shame it has come to that stage. there nothing better then the special bond with mother and child.
maybe you can take time out to think what has happen.
then maybe united again.
Is your mother heart being broken?
2007-09-19 00:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You said those things to your mother and expected her to stand there and take it? Sounds to me like the woman is at wits end with you and gave you a dose of your own. The day you grow up and apologize is the day you can *honestly* call yourself mature.
2007-09-18 22:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i had to make a decision like that also and its best for you belive me. its for your own good mine was a sister i never grew up with so i wish you luck
2007-09-21 15:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋