Recenlty, one of my friend told me she was in love on me. And i know it was true because she willing to do anything just for me, without condition. She seems going through a hard time now because i denied her.
The reason was i can't accept homosexual behaviour, i luv guys but not girls. So i told her to stop loving me bcuz i only love guys and can't become les.
She tried to commit suicide just because i cant accepting on her. And thanks god she's still alive. But she was annoying all the time & even check on me from friends. She used to checked me from friends where i was hanging around or who were those guys hanging, dating me. She will do anything to know more abt me.
But i feel guitly as was told she didnt love any guys or some other girls just because i'm the only for her. Since she's pretty beautiful so many guys did show feeling to her but she rejected.
Then what should i do so she can forget me & stop loving me bcause i would never give her a chance.
2007-09-18 21:12:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there is anything you can do to change the way that she feels. But as long as you offer her friendship, she may continue to think that she has a chance. I would stop seeing her and communicating with altogether, so that hopefully she could get over her feelings faster.
2007-09-18 21:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Theresa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you did everything you could to not lead her on and tell her the truth. You told her that you did not want to have a relationship with you. She was the one that took it to an obsessive level. I know you feel guilty, but you are not responsible for what your friend is doing or the choices she makes.
Secondly, the only thing you can do is reiterate that you only want to be friends and that if she can't be only friends, that you have no choice but to distance yourself from her. You will need to avoid where she is going to be, tell your friends to not talk about you when they are with her, tell your friends not to answer any questions about you when she asks.
2007-09-18 21:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is anything you can do. You can not change your sexuality for her. She has to find a way out herself. It is in your hands not to love her back, but you can not stop her from loving you.
2007-09-18 21:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dreamyraj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heartless bastard. I have people in love with me and have crushes on me but not necessarily me in return. I flirt with them but that is all. U need to get your mind examined by a doctor.
2007-09-18 21:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's her problem, if she doesn't understand it by now she never will, tell her parents to watch out for her because she can suicide bit again
2007-09-18 21:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her that you love guy not a girl and told him that "if you love me you must make me free because that was the thing i like , i like guys sorry for that but it is the real me loving guys ." and ask her that "i am not for you because i am not your destiny please , maybe God giveth you others but not me because my true real self self is that i love guys, i hope for your consideration but dont be sad because we still be friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-18 21:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by ruffa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really sit with her and explain everything to her. sometimes a good talk really works..good luck!
2007-09-18 21:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by candycane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw that... im not gonna read ur story
2007-09-18 21:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Meh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋