Old love refreshing?

Question

I had a chatpartner for 2 years and we came very close - online. After i found out that i was not the only one he plays his games with, i confronted him with the truth and we stopped talking. As ridiculous it sounds, i was in love with this man though people say its not possible with somebody you only saw on cam, had phone calls and voice chat. However, it happened and i was sad and in pain after we broke up. Slowly i returned to my "normal" life. All a sudden i got a phone call from him - after many weeks. He did as nothing happened, all my wounds broke up again. How should i react, how would you react?

Answer 1

I'd break... just as you did. I would be polite and talk. Afterwards, definitely have a meltdown. But given a couple days, wake-up and realize that a man should not have control over breaking you like this. End all ties to him. A clean break. Then, start your life... again.

Answer 2

Tou are not in love, honey. You are a very lonely person reaching out for anyone that Will give you attention. That is a shame. You are very vulnerable, and should not be searching for love online. It is too dangerous. the person you are chatting with could be a mass murderer, a child molester, a woman acting like a man, a man acting like a woman, an adult acting like a child, or a child trying to act like an adult, or just a player. You are hiding behind a computer instead of putting yourself out there. Read some books on self esteem, and how to meet people and make friends. Block this jerk from contacting you, and start to have a real life instead of an imaginary one. Join some clubs or organizations that interest you so that you can meet real people that you have something in common with. You could even take some non credit college courses.

Answer 3

Been there did that, forget the past move on without him. I believe you can find love on line chat/web cam all of that. There's nothing like the really thing. Now he wants too call you don;t have too be available, even if you are not for a jerk, I would say get losted,and don't call again is my reaction.2years of pain,and hurt think about it.

Answer 4

Online relationships can be very emotionally frustrating as well as heartbreaking. If he wasn't truthful in the past, chances are he isn't now. He plays games, and online chatting is his playground. He opened wounds by calling, don't let him infect you by talking to him anymore.

Answer 5

He is hoping that you will just let it go. Is that really what you want to do?
If there was some sort of apology or acknowledgment that he did something wrong I would say follow your heart. But he is just playing you to pretend that nothing happened. Run, do not walk, in the other direction! ♥

Answer 6

i think if you can deal with being strictly friends with him, then tell him so and you can be friends. but other wise if you can't and it hurts too much then tell me you can't talk anymore. Good luck to you

and ps. i do believe it possible to fall in love that way. if fact its the worst kind.

Answer 7

You deserve better find a real man

Answer 8

change your number and block his calls.
You saw who he was Say good bye and close that chapter of the book. he is not good, you deserve better.

Answer 9

i wud say leave him, but 'do wut ur heart desires' is the best advice i can give....if u say to urself, i'm going to break up with him tmw...how does it feel?... now, say to urself "i'm gonna stick around for a while longer?" how does it feel and is it worth it (either way)?

Answer 10

praise the lord & caring , sometimes hurts