I keep having dreams of the man i am deeply in love with..we have never been in a relationship..we are friends but he is married..we are NOT having an affair..but we are friends..anyways..i am wondering why i keep having all these dreams...can anyone tell me?
2007-09-18 19:43:43 · 14 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Well, it sounds pretty straightforward, you admit that you're in love with him, but he is unatainable, it seems reasonable that you would dream about him in this situation, if your feelings for him are going unfullfilled. Is there any way you could get out and find things to do where you could meet new friends? Take a class, do some volunteer work, stuff that would help you meet new people? It might help get your mind off of it, if you find ways to fill your time, and might help you meet new people, and maybe someone more attainable to be interested in, then maybe you wouldn't dwell on unrequited love so much, just a thought...good luck....
2007-09-18 22:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people say that dreams come from your subconscious and thus, they portray your desires or thoughts. I think there's some truth to this, however, some dreams that i have are complete nonsense. (I had a dream once where people were yelling at me in spanish, and i had no idea what they were saying.) On the other hand, if you're really in love with this guy, then it explains why you're having dreams about him. Just thinking about someone or something a lot can probably make you have dreams about them, but it doesn't mean you want to act out those dreams. Something else to consider is what are the dreams about? Are they sexual, or about having a life with him? In that case, maybe your dreams are acting out what you really want. It's just an outlet for your thoughts, kind of like having daydreams or fantasies. If you're distressed about the dreams, i'm not really sure what you can do to stop them, but just know they'll probably go away soon. Just try to stop worrying about it.
2007-09-18 20:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by lazarine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm very proud you have not acted on your "Love" by breaking up his family life. I'm making a wild guess here that he is your boss. Maybe you are mistaken admiration, and respect for "love". Whatever the case, hon, every ones right. You need to move on, perhaps another job. There is a lot of available men out there that can make you very happy. Once you stop "loving" the one you cant have, you'll notice the others. Good Luck.
2007-09-18 20:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by tita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, you have a desire of having a close relationship. In other words, The friendship turns into relationship in dream basically because of jealousy, helpless conscience.
In translation, that symbolizes loneliness
2007-09-19 04:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps feeling guilty of "friendship" , he is "married" after all and even if you are "just friends" he isn't devoting the energy towards his marriage as he might if you were to bow out ! The longer you stay also increases the likelihood that you might become more involved than you bargain for
2007-09-18 19:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by pax5155 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Easy, you think you love him and you wish that you wish he were single. Or that you two were dating. We all do it, but some of us let go of what we know cannot happen, and focus on other aspects of life that aren't so physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausting. It's hard I know because thinking of them usually makes us so happy, but it's time to find different sources of happiness. Don't fret, eventually you'll be over him, though until then try your best to stop thinking about him, it'll help. Easier said than done though, right? :)
2007-09-18 19:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by cowswilltakeovertheworld 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go to dreammoods.com and search for love or something that happend in your dream like an object or the man and also the feelings
2007-09-18 20:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Siegfried4245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, because of the fact you asked... "I rather have a dream that sometime this u . s . a . will upward push up and stay out the real meaning of its creed: "We carry those truths to be self-obtrusive, that one and all adult men are created equivalent." I rather have a dream that sometime on the purple hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave vendors would be waiting to sit down down mutually on the table of brotherhood. I rather have a dream that sometime even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the warmth of injustice, sweltering with the warmth of oppression, would be switched over into an oasis of freedom and justice. I rather have a dream that my 4 sons and daughters will sometime stay in a rustic the place they gained't be judged by employing the colour of their epidermis yet by employing the content textile of their character. I rather have a dream at present! I rather have a dream that sometime, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of "interposition" and "nullification" -- sometime perfect there in Alabama little black boys and black ladies would be waiting to connect hands with little white boys and white ladies as sisters and brothers. I rather have a dream at present!" -MLK incredibly loopy dream perfect?
2016-10-09 10:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by zaheer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this is the man for you. Try to find a discreet way to be with him. When the wife finds out, hopefully there won't be too much of a mess....Hey girl, you only live once!
2007-09-18 19:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by BobbyJoe Horowitz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you'll be hurt deeply, if you don't foget him.
you should be awake.
if you want to look for,you'll find many good boys around.
2007-09-18 20:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋