my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5months now.At the time we started dating,he got this new job where he works now.There is this particular girl at work whom i'm never met but due to how my bf used to talk about her,i got to dislike her.
She has a boyfriend but instead of confiding in her bf about her problems she choses to confide in my bf which i totally don't like.My bf and I get into arguements about this girl and he would tell me that i'm the one he loves and with so this other girl shouldn't matter.She texts him almost evrytime and he always texts back,my bf's brother even knows her thru my bf.The other day my bf used my laptop and forgot to log out from his myspace page,out of curiousity i checked his inbox and i saw messages from this girl and his replies.She told my bf that she is not scheduled to work wth him for like a wk and he was like they had to go meet thier manager so she wld schedule them 2gether,dat he's gona miss her lots.He denies being attracted to this gir
2007-09-18 19:39:42 · 9 answers · asked by yummy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to break up with him and you owe him no explanations because all he will do is lie to you. Just walk away and dont look back.
2007-09-18 19:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... I would say you were being jealous but after reading all of what you said i would be concerned if i were you. He likes her and he's denying it. Come on now ''I'll miss you lots'' and they just have to have the exact same work schedule to me that's a red flag.
2007-09-19 02:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be highly pissed!!
1. I have Never liked the idea of talking to the opposite sex about problems in the relationship.
2. He shouldn't be missing another female!
You need to talk to him about this!
2007-09-19 02:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd just dump him, he can deny all he wants but you have proof from the my space you read. If you don't , well then I'd say you like punishing yourself and you don't think much of yourself either. Seriously, I would have dumped him already and not be asking any advice on this,
2007-09-19 02:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged to a guy who did something similar. He confided all of our relational problems to another girl. *supposedly* there was nothing going on between them. Funny thing about that, he asked her out two weeks after we broke up.
2007-09-19 02:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by god_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf exactly how you feel, and let him decide how he feels. If you don't agree how to proceed, then you go your separate ways. It's better to know now if you 2 are compatible on these issues or not.
2007-09-19 02:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to meet their manager because he's going to miss her for a week, then i would say there's something going on there.
2007-09-19 02:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him.
Guys who aren't cheating don't tell their female "friends" that they "miss them"... I don't care how close they are.
He's not being honest. Kick rocks post haste.
2007-09-19 02:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by p37ry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should trust him. if you don't trust him, he's not a good boyfriend to start of with.
2007-09-19 02:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋