i had a fling or two when me and my bf broke up and he asked me but i lied and then i only owned up to 1 partner should i keep the othe half a secret or tell him everything?
2007-09-18 19:35:08 · 17 answers · asked by lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have nothing without trust......need i say more?
2007-09-18 19:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by gry w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never tell him about other guys. It will not work in your favor to tell him about your flings. At some point it will make him suspicious or think less of you.
I have lots of experience with this. You just can't tell guys things like this. It will only hurt you in one way or another. It might make him jealous if that is what you are after but that jealousy is not good, it makes guys leave at a point ususally.
2007-09-18 19:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by mugurelriscuta 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You told him about one, does it really matter if it was one or ten? He knows it could have been more, he's no dummy. Give your relationship a chance and keep the details to yourself. Telling him now, after you already lied, will only make him distrust you. If you are now in this seriously and know you want to be faithful forever to him, then do what's best for the relationship.
2007-09-18 19:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it ALL out there on the table and make a fresh clean start. There is nothing worse than thinking someone is finally being truthful only later to find out they were still lying to you. Just get it out and dealt with so you both can truly move on.
2007-09-18 19:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 21:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should tell him. Especially if your having sex with him. Think about it if the roles were reversed would you like your bf to sleep with other women whether it be 1 or more wouldn't you want the truth?
2007-09-18 19:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did when you were split is none of his business. You should not have to answer any questions because you were not obligated to him in any way. I would not have told him anything about either of them. It will only make him think about you with other men, and possibly cause jealousy.
2007-09-18 19:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is one and the same hun!
But I would come clean if it is bugging you. You may be surprised and find that he did too! Good relationships are meant to be based on honesty.
2007-09-18 19:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to have some honesty things to work out.
seems like with not all truth on the table, you both may never get very far,
2007-09-18 19:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by 98765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think its not going to last, don't tell him. If there's any chance it will or will move onto something serious, then you need to tell him or it will be the dark cloud looming over your happiness.
2007-09-18 19:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you start a lie finish the lie to your grave. :-p
Unless you think he will be a caring and very nice guy who will take you in his arms and say it's ok.
2007-09-18 19:41:14 · answer #11 · answered by pwned_by_1337 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋