my boyfriend told me that he had been feeling sick and he called me saturday and asked if he could come over and he told me that he had chlamedia i spelled it wrong, but we were laying down with each other and he was like you cheated on me didnt you and i kept denying it and he was like i rather you tell me now instead of finding out. and i said ok i did and he asked why i did and i didnt know and i asked him why he thought i did and he said because i havent been able to see you and you were lonly.and i said yeah. i mean i should be punished. but he didnt break up with me or anything does he really love me?
2007-09-18 19:21:45 · 27 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did go get checked and all i had was bv wich isnt a std
2007-09-18 19:29:23 · update #1
1. he cares about you enough to accept that not only did you a) cheat on him and b) give him an STD, id say he cares a great deal. Also, maybe you're just looking for ways to make him leave you. if thats the case, tell him straight out u want to see other people. good luck with your disease.
2007-09-18 19:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by colostomy_punch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not to blame, and you should be ashamed of allowing him to blame himself. Don't you realize that you caused him to get a disease?
By the way, if you had gotten pregnant with Chlamydia, you child could have been born with a birth defect. My ex son in law gave it to my daughter when she was pregnant, and the child is legally blind in one eye and has poor sight in the other from that disease.
If you do not love him, give him the respect of leaving him, and allowing him to find true happiness with someone that will treat him right. If you do love him, quit using excuses to sleep with other people. You are not being fair to either you or him.
2007-09-19 02:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy that your bf didn't leave you inspite of what you did...he must really love you a lot...you are indeed lucky to find someone like him...repay his love with being honest with him all the time and don't cheat anymore...he might not forgive you a second time...
and for your info...chlamydia is an infection found primarily in girls but is transferred to men because of contact...that's how your bf got it...the other guy you had contact with probably got it from another girl...you have to go to a doctor...you need to have yourself and your bf treated at the same time...do it before it gets any worse...chlamydia can cause infertility and increases your risk of contracting hiv...
2007-09-19 02:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly right now he is probably embarrassed or ashamed of the fact that he has an STD and you cheated on him. Give him a few days, if he doesn't leave you after reality sets in, then he is probably staying.
2007-09-19 02:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eeeesh, now that's a pickle to be in....... you've got an uphill battle. He'll never be able to put it out of his mind. Human's can't......... Try to be nice to each other and keep things friendly and when you both find someone else then don't let it happen again..... Why did you do it anyhows?......
2007-09-19 02:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that boy loves you what are you thinking any other guy would be out cheating, treating you like **** not caring for you and this boy will not even let you go after you cheated on him and gave him something that boy on the real should have left you
2007-09-19 02:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by tjsacuttie224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are hard to understand at times. Evan though things may be calm right now you have not heard the end of it.
Once the trust has been broken it's very hard to regain it.
2007-09-19 02:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by DANNY M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! I have never heard of someone not coming unglued over this, especially the STD!! He's either pathological and planning your demise or he loves you and understands or he has done this to you and feels he has nothing to be angry about.
2007-09-19 02:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people dont care that much if u cheat (I'm one of them) so maybe he doesnt feel its worth breaking up over.
2007-09-19 02:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by NotTheStatusQuo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if he has that disease then hun u do too. so how about going get checked at the doctor, tell this guy you are sorry for giving him a dam disease, and keep your legs shut. that is something that is so unforgivable. and you are wrong for cheating and then giving this disease to someone that is faithful to you. you are lucky if he stays with your sorry @ss.. =]
2007-09-19 02:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by lc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋