having sex, he says that he is not comfortable with it and also we should wait until we get married. As for me i have no problem with that but since we stopped having sex, something in us changed i no longer feel like sending anytext messages, i no longer call him like i used to sometimes i do call but sometimes a day might pass, iused to communicate with him every now and then but all this stopped. So he is so stressed about my changes and everything the truth is i cannt force myself to please him. What should i do?
2007-09-18 19:04:35 · 1 answers · asked by cnzuu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems sex is a big deal with you in an intimate relationship, guess what? THATS A BIG PROBLEM! Same thing I have to tell guys in the reverse, that ether you start to communicate honestly about how important it is, suck it up, or leave. Those are your choices. But truth be told it is a BIG part of relaitonships and marriage is a horrible cope out, espacially since most of us can't feel that were loved with out it, it makes us feel unattractive and that were doing something wrong when we don't get it enough, so I feel your pain. Had to breck up with one, 6 months, 3 times, no I can't handle that.... but she couldn't be more forthcoming with the reasoning other then she couldn't find time (trust me bs, she was killing the time we could of) and she was stressing...... ether way it can be a deal brecker, its up to you, your life!
2007-09-20 08:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋