I have attended a college class with this girl for a couple of weeks now. Yesterday I asked her for her phone number (wanted to ask her out for a date but did not feel the timing was right) and will see her again tomorrow (i will defenatly ask her tomorrow) and of course asking her out over the phone would be folish. should i take the opportunity to sms her before i see her in class to tell her i am looking forward to it?
2007-09-18 19:01:08 · 12 answers · asked by myudu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure, y not!
2007-09-18 19:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a few weeks? Maybe you should get to know her more. Or at the very least, let her know more about you.
Since she gave you her number (and assuming she knows the meaning of this), she must be in some ways also interested. So it's a good sign, but please wait some more - you just got her number yesterday, she might be a little freaked by your eagerness.
2007-09-18 19:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by summermuze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to care what people think of you....whats the worst that can happen? she will say no....then at least you know where you stand. As you get older, you dont seem to care as much about what people think and lets face it, this is your life....you must do what you feel you must do. You have to live with yourself, not the people whoi judge you, and lets face it....what qaualifications and experience have these people got that makes them an expert. You are the onlyy expert because you have to live with your own thoughts/needs. The people whyo want to judge you do not have the emotional attachment that you have. Other peoples are opinions are just that...it doesnt make them right or wrong. Do what you feel in your heart.
2007-09-18 19:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote for calling her tonight. Just make small talk and tell her you're looking forward to seeing her tomorrow. Ask her out tomorrow after class. Just relax, take it slow, enjoy her company and be yourself. Develop a friendship with her before rushing into something you might not be happy with. Okay?
2007-09-18 19:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax or you will screw the whole thing up, a good trick is to call her in the middle of changing your laundry from the washer to the dryer, if she gets a vibe that you are nervous or making a big deal of it it might freak her out.
2007-09-18 19:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Micheal M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool and casual. All women want a guy who is cool but shows a definite interest in them. I don't even know what sms means but i know it's not good. DO NOT do anything beyond simply asking her out. DO NOT look overly interested. Simply be cool and ask her out. Good luck.
2007-09-18 19:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
not anything heavy or kinda feminine..
just be like;
can't wait to see you in class ;)
but make sure to include a happy face to lighten up the weight of the message.
and then ask her out tomorrow.
:) -
2007-09-18 19:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! But be careful what you write. Things are interpreted differently over texts because the recipient can't hear the tone or your voice or see your expression so keep it basic-something that can't be misinterpreted.
2007-09-18 19:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by jado427 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, dont come on strong, if you see her next day ,act like its normal, wait about five days and ask or call and ask her out..this is called challange, u can use your phone to ask her out but dont leave a message on her phone tho..if she doesnt pick up wait two days and call back...
2007-09-18 19:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her on the phone for a few time, if she seem to want to talk to you than ask her out, if not than i guess keep talking to see if she interested, if still dont work than 4get about it
2007-09-18 19:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by crazylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proceed? Proceed with caution!
2007-09-18 19:05:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋