I had sex with this guy, sex was awful, he was extremely small(felt like I was having sex with a woman), he was not cute, he had a unibrow,he was not intelligent and the conversations were horrid . I was in a desperate place then, when I finally came to the realization of how i actually felt about him, I dumped him. That was months ago. I try to think that it was a lesson learned but I literally gag at the thought of having been with him. Has anyone else experienced this? How can I get over this experience?
2007-09-18 18:39:57 · 29 answers · asked by loveanonymity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
learn from this experience and move on
next!
2007-09-18 18:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is learn from the misfortune and move forward. I know I know, it sounds so easy, but you have to realize that time heals and before you know weeks turn in to months, months to years and so. The best thing you can do is keep busy and occupy you mind with positive thoughts and realize that if this situation did not happen then you would not have this opportunity presented to you to think about and realize what you really want in life and relationships
2007-09-19 01:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by srettigjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... this is quite interesting question.
Ok, I think there might be a missunderstanding why you could end up in bed with him. From your story, he was really messing up your night.
The only way out I have for you is, try to not think bout it anymore unless it has more than just a sweet memory for you.
Several people do have nice/bad experience in sex-life.
ex: I was a looser once at my very first sex experience. I was dating with a girl in my collage. One time we had a date, and in the middle of chit-chat, the feeling just came. Both of us felt the same, so we decided to do it in my room. When we reached my room, she was very much horny. She turned on the music & gave a lil hot move for me to enjoy. But since it was my very first one, I was shaking too much. I didn't realise what was really going on. The blood came out from my nose, and didn't stop. Finally, she took a box of tissue paper & wiped my blood away.
Than, both of us laughed... she smiled & asked me if I could take her a walk & buy her some coffee... and I said yes. We ended up walking, holding hand, and she kept teasing me.
Sometimes, bad can turn out to be good. If you really think you need to forget bout it, then you shouldn't think bout it a'more.
2007-09-19 01:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by Freddy Jr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just time........you will never fully get over it since sex is a very deep experience. But the sensations you have in your head will start to decrease as time goes by and you meet new guys that aren't as bad as the one you mention here. I have experienced it with certain girls, but as time goes on, the thought of it pops up in my head less and less to where I don't really care.
2007-09-19 01:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have a unibrow in our past we regret. Move on and be more careful next time. It's no big deal.
2007-09-19 01:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by catmandu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was going through my divorce and was feeling pretty rotten, I swear I think I was with the guy you just described!
I think when we go through tough times we do things we wouldn't normally do....and of course as women, we beat ourselves up after wards.
Try and change your thoughts about that experience.
Instead of making yourself feel so bad...think about how you must have made this uni~brow guy the happiest guy in the world for the time being...he probably has wonderful memories of you!
You'll be fine...I promise!
2007-09-19 01:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by ANewLife 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
after an experience like that you should vow to be desperate to keep the amount of men you go to bed with -at a minimum of like 2 if that's possible , nothing against the small man but if he was a jerk then of course it was bad experience in any circumstance
2007-09-19 01:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well at least he didint do anything mess up to u, their nothing wrong with having sex with a good person jsut cause you dont get along wit him dont mean he have to be some kinda freak now, and beside people always feel disgusted by their ex
2007-09-19 01:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by crazylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Felt like you were having sex with a woman. Do you regret having sex with that woman you're comparing the sex you had with uni brow to?
2007-09-19 01:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not think of it anymore. I hope your self esteem has risen, as it sounds to me that you were suffering from low self esteem to do this. Everyone makes mistakes. Just promise yourself, (and for your health!) that you will not have sex until after the _ date. (you fill in the number of dates.) Refuse to think of the incident anymore, and time will heal.
2007-09-19 01:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see this is why most of the smart people don't have sex after marriage (abstinent i think its called), once you have sex with a person the relationship between the 2 of you could be better or worse.. but ya i mean you could either just find a new boyfriend and get closer and closer with em and if your ready have sex with em..
2007-09-19 01:47:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋