I know this is a difficult question to answer, but any answers will be appreciated.
2007-09-18 18:34:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i can say is actions speak louder than words and when those actions take place and you don't have that intuition that says otherwise, then it's love :)
and it's the littlest actions that tell me - a kiss on the cheek, forehead, nose...him holding my hand, googly eyes (though he hides it)..it's little things...anything that suggests they want to take care of you and vice versa
you just know
2007-09-18 18:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot just show love--love is an expression of how you relate to a person--love is an emotion that they will feel..not see. Women and men look at this differently--you are all gooey and want to prove and show love--guys just let all that slip by and never notice it. So you are wasting your time by trying all this. If you two are actually in a relationship that grows everyday and you truly have a future and respect one another, then you probably got love. If there is some things missing--there might not be the love you are looking for---now, be honest--is this a growing, nurturing relationship on BOTH sides??
2007-09-18 19:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot do a quick fix action. You have to be consistent on a regular basis with your action. What I mean is a guy can do something sweet and you're thinking "oh he really loves me." And next week or month he does something hurtful like cheat. That is not love. So remember be persistent in showing your love.
2007-09-18 18:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by humblepie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no quick an easy way of proving love. Love is not something that is defined by a few well thought out moves. Love needs time to grow. Just be kind, considerate, attentive, and trustworthy. In time your love will prove itself.
2007-09-18 18:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love someone then it will prove itself over time. Anything you do simply to prove that you love someone is contrived and being done for the wrong reasons. Be patient and try living life rather than fighting your way through it.
2007-09-18 18:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Crypt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot actually do it with your actions. The one, easiest thing to do, is to tell her to look into your eyes, pause for a moment, (smiling of course) tell her she's beautiful (only if you mean it) and then tell her you love her. There's a certain "lool" someone gets in their eyes when they truly love someone and they say it to the one they love. That's it though, that's all I have for ya. Oh, and she'll know if you're lying, so if you don't really love her, don't do this. Seriously, it's hella easy to tell when someone's lying when it comes to "love."
2007-09-18 18:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
proof hmm.
1. keeping regular and sincere interest in your partner and saying "i love you" actually helps, though some might argue
2. answering your partners questions without hesitation ...not doing so causes a feeling of being secretive or distrustful...with leads to communication breakdown
3. planning together mutual goals. doing things separately is fine but if the left hand doesnt know what the right hand is doing...again...can lead to distrust and communication problems.
2007-09-18 18:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few concise actions? One action is loyalty; another would be being trustworthy; another would be being sincere and mature; another would be respecting that person; another would be wanting what's best for that person and supporting them; another would be being true to yourself so that person can really know you for who you are. There you go.
2007-09-18 18:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be completely selfless. show lots of affection. always be there (emotionally speaking of course).
2007-09-18 18:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by jsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋