I got pregnant at a very young age,my bf promised to marry me but since he was away for work,he has changed his mind a month after. He visited our baby everytime he's in town. He even stayed overnight to my parents home where my baby and I live.I found out he got a gf---a co worker on board.I begged him to make me understand but he refused to give me any explanations he just want me to welcome him and cooperate whenever he wants to see his child.I let him treat me that way coz I cant stand loosing him.And Im hoping he will realize his mistakes.Lately he proposed to live with me.Until I've heard the news that his gf is pregnant and it is his too.
2007-09-18 18:32:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to focus on your baby and what's best for him. Your bf seems to be immature and when a baby is involved there is no time for immaturity and indecisiveness. Get yourself together for your baby's sake and yours. Don't keep him from seeing his child but let him get himself together and grow up. And if you are still sleeping with him make a quality decision to stop. I know from experience that it's hard to walk away but it's all about making your mind up. When a person really makes a decision there is nothing that can change that persons mind.
2007-09-18 19:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by humblepie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh sounds like lots is going on! But wouldn't the best thing be to do for you and your baby is to move on and start a new life? If you keep waiting for your baby's father to come back you are holding yourself back from being happy and making a new life. If he has a new girlfriend and they are having a baby- sounds like he is making a new life for himself, but making promises so that he doesn't lose you in his old life. But that's not fair. You can't just keep waiting! Let him know that you are over it, and that you are moving on. Tell him that you want him to play a part in his baby's life- but you can't wait around forever for him to be in yours....
2007-09-18 18:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have losed him but you seem to forget he has child support to give you and they can back date this. you need to write to the attoney general and get going and find out what you need to do and get lawyer and leave out the visitation now. you dn't need him any more just the support will help and he has to do tht eriod.
2007-09-21 15:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋