so, i'm married, 20, haven't gone to college, and excel in linguistics, music performance, and Jesus. my husband is in the military and wants to get stationed elsewhere than lovely suburban Virginia Beach. i however want to stay until God tells me what He wants me to do for His kingdom (this must sound very odd for someone who doesn't know anything about Christianity...oops. e-mail me if you have questions). Anyway, some of my personal qualities include generosity, exuberance, fire, poise, energy (lots of that here), a need to help others, and charisma.
any ideas?
2007-09-18 17:08:34 · 22 answers · asked by crazyvioliniste06 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i just want to thank those of you who answered my question thoughtfully and from a Christian perspective (because i am Christian, and thus no other perspective would be useful, unless of course truth is spoken, and in that case bravo!).
thank you for providing Scriptural reference. i really appreciate it.
oh, and i'd like to add that i'm a new Christian (been saved since Feb 07!! woot).
my husband is as far as i know a nonbeliever, and if you have time in your busy schedule, then please keep him in your prayers (or just pray for him once...while you're reading, i'm sure God's cool with that :P).
you guys (and gals...oops!) really are doing a great service. keep up the awesome question-answering!
God Bless!!!
2007-09-18 19:34:15 · update #1
i can't possibly choose a best answer. So many of you have the right idea.
Thank you so much; your iron has sharpened my iron.
2007-09-20 17:31:11 · update #2
As a Christian, I would think it would be obvious. The Bible teaches that a woman should follow and the husband is the leader of the family-so you should support your hubby's decision (according to the Bible). You can search for God's will in your life no matter where you live, can't you?
It sounds like you have a lot to give so get busy in your local church or charity work. Spend some of that wonderful energy doing good for others....Blessings!
2007-09-18 17:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Native Spirit 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Teaching would be a good profession for you. You would need to go to school and now is the perfect time. You could get a degree in language and teach. Find a language you enjoy and love and go to college and learn it on a college level. Once you have a degree you could teach kids. This is where your generosity, energy, and charisma will be very valuable. Many teachers are so dull and boring it would be refreshing to see one that was excited about her job. You could also look into civilian jobs where your husband will be stationed and see if you can get one that you would enjoy and work your way up. Heck they may even pay for you to go to college in some cases. This is the time to search your soul and pray for guidance. Meditate after you pray and listen to what you hear in your heart and head. Remember God has a "still, small voice", that is why praying is not enough, you have to be willing to listen and hear Him when he speaks to you. You will know, the hard part might be doing it, but you will know what He wants for you and your life. I am sure it will all work out. =)
2007-09-18 17:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can serve God / minister for God anywhere that isn't sinful in and of itself.
The military is not sinful in and of itself, so pray and ask your christian friends about it! In the end, either way (going to the military station or remaining) would be great!
2007-09-18 18:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by alomi_revolution 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask do you volunteer at church, a shelter, or a quilting club? Anything to take your mind off not staying at home.
How about be a speaker at church, or participate in Bible Study. Not sure do you have a child you take care of.
From what you sound like you are very financially secure/ and or set. If you are perhaps go see a vocational counselor to see your likes in dislikes perhaps in a major in college or even a trade like court reporting/nurse something to that effect.
Blessings.
*** MAY God bless you and your husband and that everything goes great according to His plan. Peace.
2007-09-18 17:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Born Valentine's Day 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WHOOOOOO I love Virginia Beach(the closest beach to me)...anyway...
God does not seek you...you need to pray to God and ask Him if moving with your husband is the right thing to do. Pray until you get an answer...you will, but God has to know this is something very serious to you....
Well, you're married...that's good. You're 20, still young and you can accomplish a lot....you can go to online school...get a degree in theology(since you like Jesus) you could EVEN become a Chaplin in the military(if they allow female Chaplin's) and you can work with your husband!
You could also get a degree in music or something related...or even foreign languages...and if you get your masters you can even teach others about it, or teach others the language....
There are lots of options, you just have to seize them when the time is right. When is the right time? Pray....He WILL answer.
2007-09-18 17:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
You sound like an extremely intelligent young woman! Right now, your place is with your husband. If he is transfered to another state or country, it's your job to be supportive of him, even if you aren't able to go with him. Wherever you are, God will show you things you can do to honor both your husband and God.
God bless you in your journey!
2007-09-18 17:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Devoted1 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pray for God's will to be done in the situation. If it is meant for you to stay then God will provide and can even change your husbands mind about moving. if not, get plugged into a church that your gifts and talents will be accepted. (sorry to say not all churches are really inviting) But don't get discouraged. Try to look at the positive no matter where you are at. (easier to preach than to practice, I know.)
God Bless
2007-09-18 17:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by The 2 points guy 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you sit back waiting for something to happen life will pass you by. I am a firm believer that you have to be proactive about your life.
you are only twenty. Even if you do think you have come up with what you want to do I can guarantee you will change your mind eventually. I have moved and had more jobs then anyone I know, but at least I know what I don't want to do. lol
2007-09-18 17:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by alana 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Go where your husband is going. God may have a use for your particular talents there. Of course, you should pray about it 1st.
2007-09-18 18:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow are you the biggest fuckjob ever or what? First of all how can fire be one of your qualities. God won't come to you so deal with it. Go to college, drop your spiritual dreams and become a functioning member of society. Oh and how do you excell in jesus, seriously, and you said you were good at linguistics.
2007-09-18 17:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Robert M 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋