Okay here's the story.Im in AVID and for AVID we're going to go to a filedtrip this Saturday to a football game.I let my mom know and she said she will let me go.Today when she picked me up from school I told her what time is she going to go to West Covina and she said 3:00pm so I said okay I will walk to school for the game she said no your not your going with us to West Convina and I told her what the hell I always go with you everywhere why can't I just get a day for myself and she said too bad your not going and I got mad.Im not talking to her.Anyways is there anyway I can convince her to let me go to the game the only way I know is letting my dad know so he can talk to her and let me go because he is a very nice father but he's sleeping and my mom won't let me wake him up.So any ideas that have worked for you?THANKSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
-pissed girl
2007-09-18 15:41:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My brithday's on October 28 and it's almost coming I will turn 13.
2007-09-18 16:25:51 · update #1
Plus im going with some other AVID kids.
2007-09-18 16:26:24 · update #2
Depends on how old u are. if ure 13 or older tell her that u would like to have some liberty. That You really want to go by yourself to that place you want to go. Tell her that if she trusts you she CAN trust you in this. that youre not a little kid anymore.
2007-09-18 15:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by xD126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't allow my daughter to go to a school function with her friends until she was 16.
While it was bad of her to break her promise to let you go, perhaps she just changed her mind, or thought about it differently, or didn't realize it was this particular day, or found out more information that caused her to worry about your safety.
I know you're angry, but you need to remember that you're a part of her, and no one will ever love you as much as she does. Her decisions reflect that love, even if it doesn't seem so.
TX Mom
P.S. It is morally wrong--I have taught my kids about this from 2 years old--to go to one parent, receive a no answer, and then to go to the other, receive a yes answer and do what you want to do. Your mom & dad are a team. If you told dad that mom said no, dad would probably agree with her. But you probably won't tell him that, will you? This smacks of manipulation.
2007-09-26 22:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thinks your too young. my mom does that to my sister all the time. I'm 13 turning 14 I'm still not allowed to go to my best friends house NEXT DOOR!!! You think you have it bad. Anyway try making her feel guilty about it and try keepng up the silent treatment. well i don't knw how you can do both but try.
2007-09-26 20:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Merry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...but I agree with ur mom! She may just think that ur way to young to go off with someone other then her...or she doesn't want to realize that her babi is growing up...talk to her and tell her how you feel! But...be nice about it...(mature)i hope this helps!
2007-09-26 17:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why parents say you can go somewhere and then change their minds in midstream.
Nothing ever worked for me.
2007-09-18 22:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋