broken hearts?

Question

what do you do when your broken hearted?

Answer 1

Listen to sad music, have a good cry and get it out.

Answer 2

There's no set in stone answer for this question. I know exactly how it feels. I've been heart broken by the guy I've loved for the past 7yrs. It's been a year and it still hurts. However, to help answer your question, I believe that it's always helpful to stay away. I know it can be really hard and you just might want to pick up the phone to hear his voice but don't do it. Keep yourself busy and take sometime to find you. Enjoy being single. I'm not saying to jump out there in the dating world right now, but take some time off. Hang out with your friends, do activities you've always wanted to try but never did. In a few months or so feel free to put yourself back in the dating world and have fun!! It's a wonderful feeling to have that freedom and exciting to meet new people. I know it's easier said than done (been there), but it;s do-able. Time really does heal. You may or may not get over him, but you can move on. There's definitely a difference with being in love with someone and loving that someone, and later on you just might find that you're a part of the later and you'll be okay with it. Again, I would just advice you explore you, enjoy life, and spend/engage in never before done activities with your girlfriends. Good Luck...From one broken heart to another..hope this helps a bit =))

Answer 3

I would suggest keeping yourself distracted but at the end of the day you just might get depressed for the fact that your heart is broken. Guys come and go. Your heart needs a little breaking so that when the right person comes, he'll be able to heal it. Hanging with friends and having people around that care about you helps you a lot.

Answer 4

Get really busy. Focus on things you love, be it a hobby, a job or education. If you love being around friends, do that. Just really try to laugh. Watch shows that make you laugh. Stay away from sappy songs or movies. Just try not to think about it. I know it's hard but after a couple weeks/months of being busy, it will be a lot better. And if you're up for meeting someone new, that always helps as long as you have an open mind. Even just finding a new guy friend who makes you smile will make you realize the guy you left behind pails in comparison. Take care.

Answer 5

Try to keep busy, do all your favorite things. talk to friends and family. Cry when you need to. Go out meet new friends. Write in a journal. If you feel depressed seek a professional. Remember sometimes we are only with family, friends, boyfriends and even spouses for a certain amount of time, it could be days, months, years or the rest of our lives, but the time we spent together is the time we were meant to be together, not a moment shorter or longer, so instead of feeling bad about whatever happened, change it and feel good by remembering the good times that was shared, if it was meant to be it will be and you must be strong and go on, its not worth getting so upset over, time will pass and you will meet someone or somebodies in the near future.

Answer 6

when you are broken hearted what you should do is eat ice cream and then if that doesn't help any try like going for a run or walk with just you music and your thought think of things you never liked about the person think of negative things about the person. It's just going to take time its not going to be together again over night.

Answer 7

As one who has been broken-hearted many times, i can honestly say that there's no set way to repair your heart. all i can give you is that, no matter how bad it hurts, you will survive, and you will come out stronger than before. my best advice is this; "You're not alone, so don't pretend like you are". the best thing to do about it is to talk to a best-friend who you trust, and is there for you, and just talk. in your mind, whatever you say will help you to realize exactly what the next step is. good luck, and feel free to drop me a line if you'd like any more advice on the subject.

Answer 8

Broken hearts need to be consoled as well as it takes time to heal. While your heart is healing. You should take some time out for yourself. Try relaxing with a nice bath and soft music and do some soul searching as to what your going to do to prevent another broken heart. Broken hearts do mend but like I said it takes time to heal.

Answer 9

No one is really 'broken hearted'! They just want something/or someone back the way it was.Don't give up so quickly,all is not lost! If you feel the way you do,someone is feeling the same about you;also! As long as you 'breath',never give up on love or being loved. . you are a 'beautiful' soul,and someone will find you again.

Answer 10

Well I am not going to lie, It will hurt like hell for a long time the only way to survive is to think of all the positive things you could provide to someone special and keep your options open, god has shown you this one was not the true love and someone better is out their, you need to find yourself first. Trust me I have been hurt several times also. It will get better take a night out with the girls!!!!!

Answer 11

Let time heal your wounded heart. Firstly, you need to accept that the previous relation is already gone and your life needs to carry on.

Listen to music, get yourself busy with all unfinish things.
Learn new things, get to know more friends.

From there, maybe you can find another person which can go thru thick & thins with you.