me and my mom have a big issue?

Question

me and my mom got in a fight about me starting to drive. i yelled at her and she yelled at me. pretty soon she hit me really hard. several times. she just came home and we're not even talking at all. what should i do? should i let my feelings out and tell her to never hit me again? =[

Answer 1

wow where did she hit you...was it abuse or just "discipline"....you both need to calm down and then talk about it

Answer 2

What did you say to your Mom to make her hit you? If you resorted to profanity, I can understand it. However, if you are old enough to drive, you are too old to be hit (I wouldn't let you drive for a month or so). Besides, physical violence is not the answer.

One more thing, Honey, and please consider this seriously. There are a lot of drivers out there that will cut you off, drive slow in front of you, etc. If you are not mature enough to control your temper, please consider waiting awhile before getting behind the wheel. Hot heads only end up in accidents.

Answer 3

I think you both need to talk, let her know she shouldn't hit you and you should not yell at your mother, you have to give respect to earn it. Life is too short and you never know when God may take her from you, And you will always hate yourself if something had happened to her before you resolved things, I never raised my voice to my mother and she was taken from us two years ago, I would give anything to see her one more time. Go tell her your sorry and you love her!

Answer 4

well first of all i think your mom was wrong to hit you...but she is your mom and i am sure she is very worried about you maybe not so much your driving skills but the other drivers...you both need to sit down and talk to each other and no yelling or hitting....

Answer 5

Uh oh! Sounds like your Mom might have an anger issue going on. It is not o.k. to hit around someone your age. Has it happened before. By all means tell her how you feel about this and also what it is you need - you are needing respect and at the very least she needs to listen to you on the driving issue. Who is paying for these lessons?

Answer 6

That's tough, she probally wanted to disipline you but it's no reason to hit you, the small arguement got blown up. Tomorrow after you all have slept talk to her and say you want to have a mature conversation about you starting to drive. (think of) and Show her the positives side of you starting to drive, because as of right now she is only thinks of the negatives.

Answer 7

yesssssssssss. talk to her. tell her not to hit you again..but i hope you too stop yelleling at you mom. you mom is only angry because she love you. my mom do the same too till she pass away 6 year ago now i miss her an i never got to say im sorry for what i did..

Answer 8

Talk it out to her. Im sure she'l understand. coz shez been though this prhase too right?.
Dont loose your cool. tell her befor hand not to loose her cool too.
Tell what u wanna tell. ask her what she want to tell and come up on a good desicion
Good Luck!
Mwhaz!

Answer 9

She shouldn't hit you like that, tell her how you feel about it, and you need to know how the law in your state protects people against things like that so you know your options if she does it again

Answer 10

if you're telling the truth, and she started to repeatedly hit you hard, you should contact the authorities. i know that sounds harsh, but that situation poses a danger to your health.
good luck

Answer 11

Yes and tell her that if she does, you won't hesitate to call the police. Tell her how it made you feel and what she did is illegal. Also remind her you look up to her as a role model and ask if that is how she would like you to handle your frustrations and problems.