I'm curious, would love to hear the answers (:
2007-09-18 14:22:17 · 17 answers · asked by Lilly d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No brains
No chemistry.
Turns out to be a self serving, self centered wench who lives in fantasy land, without any ambitions or realistic goals.
Either that or a Poor lay.
2007-09-18 14:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All of these have happened to me, and most of the women in question have not had an offer for a 2nd date:
1. Insisting that I pay for her drinks/meals/etc
2. Telling me how much she loves Cookie Monster Music (death metal)
3. Showing complete disinterest in me.
4. Automatically agreeing with everything I say with absolutely no discussion
5. Disagreeing with everything I say with no more reason than "you wouldn't know"
6. Holding right-wing, racist, fascist, or intolerant views
7. Regarding people as 'intellectually inferior' just because they haven't done any tertiary study.
8. Disappearing without saying goodbye.
9. Openly flirting with other guys
10. Dominating the conversation
11. Talking about nothing but herself, and when I try to change the subject, either relating that to something about her, or just disregarding what I say & going back to talking about herself.
12. Constantly bringing up ex-partners in conversation
13. Proudly showing me the slash marks on her wrists.
14. Giving me a psychoanalysis and presuming she knows all about me based on the hour or so that I've spent with her so far.
15. Declaring that all her problems, without exception, stem from the patriarchy.
16. Threatening to kill me
I have other reasons too, but this should give you some idea.
Don't worry, most of the dates I've been on haven't resulted in any of the above (16 only happened once), and I have been interested in a 2nd date with them.
2007-09-18 14:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a creepy laugh.
If she followed me home in her car.
If she talks like a tractor engine.
If she has tatoos with names like 'Jonathan'.
If she crosses her legs the whole date(its a bad sign, believe me).
If she didn't look at me when we talk(it just bothers me...don't ask)
If she talks to herself and mumbles.
If she talks to other guys while we are out.
If I see 'Joe' on her speedial, and he isn't a relative.
If she won't touch me at all.
If she tries to leave early, and the excuse sucks.
Oorr...I don't feel anything for her.
There are just too many fish in the sea to ponder over a single girl for too long; I learned that the hardway. Girls always think they are the only ones looking for someone that cares, and guys are just in it for the looks and fun. Oh well. They're wrong.
2007-09-18 14:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well a million things.
Faults she has that get on your nerves, like talking too much, having an annoying laugh, etc.
Realizing there are incompatibilities, such as, the guy is a compassionate liberal and the girl is a hateful conservative.
Or feeling like the girl did not like us.
2007-09-18 14:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
individually, i think of going Dutch is the thank you to bypass, a minimum of till the courting has been happening for a on a similar time as. that is not any longer honest that one guy or woman has to pay for all time. My genuine reason is that there are various Neanderthals accessible who think of that in the event that they purchase a woman a meal, then they're "obligated." that's the twenty first century. we pays our very own way.
2016-10-19 01:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An overwhelming number of reasons from no chemistry between us to bad breath and body odor. The one main thing that turns me off from a woman is when she's a control freak.
2007-09-18 14:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I don't feel we have strong enough chemistry, or if she isn't very communicative, or if the energy level between us drops midway through the date, then I probably won't ask for a second one.
2007-09-18 14:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is rude. To me, to the service staff, to anyone. It's such a turn off.
When she talks about her exes. When she spouts extreme political or religious opinions. When she has poor table manners (chews with her mouth open, uses silverware improperly, salts her food before tasting it). When she agrees with everything I say. When she can't put together a coherent sentence. When she talks about her weight.
2007-09-18 14:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The big deal-breaker is when she gets clingy and demanding right away.
If she shows up in a Dodgers cap ... she won't make it out of Date 1!
2007-09-18 15:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Coach E! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when there is no real connection --- and by that i mean the conversations were stilted or you are just not that interested in the person themselves --- no slurs intended --- thats the idea of the date to see if your personalities can find a common ground ---- have fun
2007-09-18 14:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋