i just found my girlfriends xanga page i read im sure its her. the date was when we first started to go out it said crappy stuff about me and the only reson shes staying with me is because i make her feel safe because of her psycho crazy ex boyfried. do i tell her i found out it was me? do i break up her? do i play it cool? god d*mmit somone help me.
she is really hot and in the xanga page she did say a couple of nice things and that we hav alot in common?
HELP ME!
2007-09-18 14:10:12 · 10 answers · asked by tomzzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is using you and when she finds someone else she will dump you. Dump her now.
2007-09-18 14:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you may have circumstantial proof that the person on the page is your girlfriend, you don't know for a fact it is her.So I suggest that before you do anything rash( which you may later regret), do the following:1)make sure it is her page2)make sure she meant the stuff written there both good and bad.The only way to do this the right way is to ask her directly.Show her the page , ask if it is hers, if she meant all she wrote etc.Only after you hear her answers and/or explanations can you begin to consider all of your options and your choice of action.Be deliberate and firm, but not rude or nasty, as you have your talk with her.Good luck.
2007-09-18 14:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Observe her. Sign up for a Xanga account and send a invitiation query to her. Then pretend to be a bystander and when she tells you about that stuff, you will know that's the truth. Next time she sees you, dump her. Tell her everything.
If she doesn't tell you anything negative, talk to her about it.
In short, play it cool for a while
2007-09-18 14:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by MethosTR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is going to dump you anyway, so you better off confronting her about and believe me hs you get older you realise looks mean very little but if you are so superfical then iguess staying with someone he talks negatively about you behind your back, is just right
2007-09-18 14:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jersey Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is just using you then you should confront her about it. Make sure it's definitely her page though. Get your facts right. But yeah, don't be her safety net, hot or not.
2007-09-18 14:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it, ask her. u need to tell her to her face, and see what she says and how she reacts. if she admits it and says she only wants you for protection, then break up with her. if she cares, and apologizes, give yourself sometime, think about it, and maybe things can work out.
2007-09-18 14:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with her. saftey is one thing and love is another. she probably dosent love you and nor you to her try this - ask her about it if shes shifts and scared stay with her if shes angry and mean leave.
2007-09-18 14:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her enough stay with her!!! just tell her that you saw it and you just want to know if it is all true! but if you really like her stay with her but ask questions!
2007-09-18 14:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys? Talk to her about it. . .otherwise you'll never know the truth.
2007-09-18 14:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Alexa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her then stay if you dont then do her a favor and stop wasting her time
2007-09-18 14:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋