My sister's father tells my sister to lie to my mom, my sister knows she isnt supposed to lie. He puts her in a bad situation all the time. My mo has talked to him about it but he justoesnt care. My sister is in counseling becase of other issues we have had with him. What else can we do?
2007-09-18 07:31:59 · 14 answers · asked by Baby Julie due 5/12 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
what do u think? of course, he's teaching her to lie.
2007-09-18 07:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Unless there's abuse involved, there's no need for legal procedures just because he's teaching her to lie. Everybody lies, but he shouldn't have put her in bad situations all the time or ask her to lie for something everyone knows it's wrong. That's terrible.
If it's something like a innocent secret or the mom wasn't being reasonable(ex: control freak moms), then I guess that would be justified. There's a difference in lying. Lying to protect yourself and others around you is okay(unless it's something totally over the line in certain circumstances), but lying at the expense of another is not.
2007-09-18 09:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by jm7 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in a similar situation. Only it was my daughter and it didn't turn out well. I don't really know what you can do. Maybe, since she's in therapy for other things he did, your mother can go to court and ask for supervised visits so he can't do that any more. I wonder if there was other issues why she's allowed to see him any way. I would talk to a judge.
2007-09-18 10:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very wrong for your sisters dad to do that to her. Your mom needs to contact a lawyer and talk with him about it. Different States have different laws, but I am sure there is something they can do to keep him from seeing her if he is putting her through this kind of mental stress. I have 2 children and I had to have the judge tell my ex that he was to never again tell my children to lie to me again and if he did that he would no longer be aloud to see them any more.
2007-09-18 07:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by justbc_try 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. That is wrong of the father. If he is doing things that harm the child, it may be time to discuss with an attorney keeping him away from her, or limiting his visitations to being supervised. If not, then the counseling should help, too.
2007-09-18 07:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's very wrong. Disrespectful to both your mom and your sister. your sister should ask how he might feel if someone else expected her to lie to him for them.
2007-09-18 07:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by magy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
particular of couse, i believe you and that i cant have self assurance your mom doesnt. the reviews which you bypass by as a newborn will help shape who you would be interior the destiny and its significant becasue of that. i think its variety of like your construction blocks. telling a three-4 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old that their father is with a prostitute at that actual 2d is so incorrect. at that age i didnt even know what a prostitute grow to be. i think of that seeing you mom and dad combat continuously might substitute you concept of marraige and men because of the fact of those undesirable reviews and what your father did. you likely generalised that maximum marraiges and men may well be like that too and so might have concern trusting men of commiting your self right into a marraige as youve seen them bypass incorrect earlier with human beings alongside with your mom and dad getting harm and you dont desire to bypass by that.
2016-10-19 00:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother can divorce your father. That is WRONG. Assuming that these other issues are abuse or something like that, your mother should use her common sense and either send her kids away or divorce your father.
2007-09-18 12:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♫Wolf♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation......u gotta think of the situation the come up with a solution for that certain situation it also depends on y he's having her lie
2007-09-18 07:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Grim_JUGGALO666 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless it's a good reason to lie, like a secret present or surprise party then no it's not alright
How old is your sister?
2007-09-19 12:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Abby Paige~BABY BRO DUE IN JAN!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is absolutely wrong, but it looks like you already know that. I am not sure what you can do. I assume that your mom and your sisters father are divorced.
2007-09-18 07:37:23 · answer #11 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋