We broke up, and I love him, but I am not sure he is the right one. How do I know? Should we try again?

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So, we been together for like 4 months. He's great with my kids. I love him. I have always had trust issues & so that plays a factor too. We broke up. He made a small situation & blew it up into something as major. It isn't the first time he has broken up with me over something really small. But like last time in a day we were back together. This time it could've been like that again but I chose not to let him off that easily. I'm possibly pregnant. I'm so confused. I love him so much but when I think about it I really think in the long run he'll cause me more grief than happiness. But I have been alone for so long & I have a longing to be with him. Am I settling for him? I don't feel that way all of the time, but it's something that I do think about. I can't get him out of my mind. He calls & says he wants us to work, he even got his best friend to tell me this to, but I am still at a fork in the road. Then what about the possibility of the baby? PLEASE HELP!!! Any advice will help!!!

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Yea but beyond this forum, so you get the general bs. Ether way seems someone neglected themselves after the father failed, then found somebody, then neglected the relationship because you never got close enough to really relate intimatly. You know those small things he was arguing with you about? You know what thats called? TRANSFERENCE! Look it up, ether way he had bigger issues with you, but do to his relaitonship with himself, and you, he couldn't confront you honestly about them, which makes him a BAD guy to get into a relatinoship with, but it would seem, YOUR THE SAME! Yep, because you descided to treat this like an immature game of whose fault is it, and wait for him to come back as the "bigger" person, don't do that, honesty is the best policy for one very fundemental reason, IF YOU CAN'T BE HONEST THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER!!!! Just remember that, because if there IS a kiddo on the way, the only way you'll keep this from being heck on everyone, is if you remember that doctrin. Also relaitonship are met to be unique don't expect to find your answers in us, or a romantic comedy, just thats why you pulled that classic bs move of, this time I want'd him to know I was serious.... he can't unless you tell him you are...rrrr.... just do this right and benfits well be your award...