Do you have your own body?

Question

I want my body back. I am trying to conceive and lately I feel like my body belongs to someone else. I can't sleep only comfortable on my stomach. I am clumsy. My stomach is started get like a round shape to it. I keep getting like these little achy cramps near my ovaries.

I had my period on Sept. 2nd and ovulated Sept. 14th and baby danced Sept. 10th and 15th. I been feeling this way before then. I want to be pregnant but afraid to take the test and get a negative.

Is it in my head or is there something wrong? I want my body back.

Please no smart comments. Thank you.

Answer 1

I went through the same thing when I was TTC. I guess I can't really give you a good answer because like you, every time I took a test and it came out negative it felt like such a huge setback.
I was taking the tests the day my period was supposed to start. So what I finally did was calmed myself down, and gave my period an entire week, and if it didn't come, then I took the test. And about a month later, it was positive.

Answer 2

It is enormously stressful coping with infertility. That feeling of not even wanting to see the test in case it is negative again can be grinding on one's nerves and emotions. It can and does cause a lot of anxiety, the way you describe. This is why some couples eventually give up and try another route such as surrogacy or adoption.

Answer 3

those sound like pregnancy signs... I would wait a week or so and take a pregnancy test. That way there is less chance of it being a false negative. And if you get a negative just try to relax...that tends to work better then obsessing and stressing yourself out.

Answer 4

Take a test and put your mind to rest, hon. Stop stressing, too. It's not going to help you.

Answer 5

its in your head, you just ovulated. you wouldnt be having those sign of any yet for that matter. your belly wouldnt change at all until your 4 months pregnant

Answer 6

ur probley pregnate!!!