do men get it too easy these days in relationships?

Question

i just find that men dont seem to make any effort anymore.....it's all too easy for them.do men want relationships,or just a bit of fun?

Answer 1

Yes some are but not all of them

Answer 2

I'd have to say, the majority have it easy. They no longer have to do anything to impress a female. Whatever happened to flowers for no reason, as opposed to when they really f*** something up?

However, a lot more women are.. well, bitchier nowadays. They demand more than they deserve. They make all the nice guys bitter by treating them like s***.

With the fact that more women don't want to commit as often or as soon, a lot more men are getting used to not having to make an effort and when a nice girl comes along, they're too lazy to try because it's more comfortable not to.

Men have always had it easy,and now it's even easier. Women tend to pay the ultimate price. That is not to say that this applies to all men, but the fact is all the "bad" men outnumber the good and make it even more difficult for everyone involved.

This would be a better world if everyone, when starting a relationship, begin with a blank slate and not bring in baggage from before.

Answer 3

I think that most guys really do want to be in a relationship with someone they love. I also think, though, that things like marriage and having children have been de-emphasized among the younger guys. Today's generation is a bit behind our parents when it comes to this. My dad had just celebrated his 21st birthday a week before he married my mom. I was born a little less than a year later, before he turned 22. But back then, that's how it was done. These days, I'm in my late twenties and the vast majority of my friends haven't gotten married yet, and only a couple of them have kids. We all have significant others but we are just living with them, partly because we didn't want to rush into marriage and risk getting divorced, and partly because our S.O.'s have some sort of epidemic fear of marriage before age 30. We might be making it a little easier for men these days, what with all the "free milk" they're getting without "buying the cow," so to speak, but a lot of my female friends, myself included, think it is more important to be liberated women and not commit ourselves to a life as a wife and mother and nothing else. When we finally do get married, it will be for all the right reasons, and we won't have to lose ourselves because of it.

Answer 4

Depends on the men and what kind of relationship you have with each. These days it seems some "overfriendly" relationships come with benefits of having friends as casual sex partners as well. So it seems today's relationships are a lot more open to having sex early on rather that well-on into them. It's like it's become expected as early as a second date or so. And some guys and girls have the idea that if a lot of money was spent on a first date, that it is almost expected or obligated to happen as well. I think it's a simple matter of morals over matter to determine when to just date for fun and when to start calling it a relationship and then decide when to do what in that relationship.

Answer 5

If a girl is looking for a relationship, that makes her an easy mark for the guys. She is vulnerable and more willing to give in to the relationship and what it brings. For a girl that is confident, goal oriented, and goodlooking, she makes a harder target for the guys. It's up to us girls how easy or hard guys have getting relationships. and it's up to us whether it's for fun or serious business. Sometimes we look at the wrong angle to figure out the problem.

Answer 6

Not im my relationship its all take take take and no give!!! I always go out of my way to impress my lady and be kind and considerate, send her flowers when she's down, cook, clean, take her out ...

At the minute i feel like i am fighting an uphill battle and i cant be bothered anymore .. My last Mrs i was horrible to her i think in some wierd way its karma .. As my new lady wont give !!!

Never mind i will give till xmas if nothing changes im off !!!

Answer 7

well there are some good men out there ( i haven't found them yet!!!!)... but most men do just want the relations and not the relationship. The thing is that most guy play the i'll get into a relationship with you, if i can have the bed part first...... you know??

Good luck... it's a b*tch trying to find a good guy.

Answer 8

Depends on the man I guess...some want something serious and others want something to mess around with for the moment... I do have to say though that some men have it hard...they end up working all the time and paying the bills to support the wife...of course she cleans, but Still...some have it hard some don't...It's life.

Answer 9

When there are hoes throwing the ***** at them, of course it's way too easy!!!

But that my dear, is not a man, it is a horny little boy in a man's body...

Don't be "that girl" because you think that is what a "man" wants.

Stay focused, be mature and don't give it up too soon, because as soon as he is done with you, he is on to the next one.

Make him chase you, they like that, make hin work for what he wants, don't just give it to him!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Everybody likes and wants fun. The relationship comes when we can have fun and you don't make life difficult. If I can enjoy being with a lady, then I will be there for a long time. If she makes it hard, then I'm gone.

Answer 11

it's an age thing. the older a man gets the more he's ready to settle down. Younger guys like to have fun and see what they can get into. You might have 1 out of 10 thats ready to settle down young