lately he gets mad i try talking to him and he just starts to scream at me and i end up crying
2007-09-18 03:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by nenorra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
total communication breakdown, go to relate or marriage guidance, you are both going to have to put the effort into this. I'm sure you will, but you may have problems convincing your partner. if he won't, you got a problem until he starts to open up.
Maybe just back right off, is what your asking or wanting to talk about unreasonable? He may just need some time and space.
2007-09-18 04:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by EM J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's just started doing this after 5 years, he must be under some kind of stress or pressure from an outside source, like work, that is causing him to act up all of a sudden. Either that or he is suffering from a form of depression. Either way, you need to help him get to the root of the problem. Tell him calmly, without crying, that you want to be there for him but will not tolerate his emotional abuse and if he does it again, you're out of there. See what happens from there.
2007-09-18 04:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the fall of the year and new models are on display. Time for a trade and get rid of the old clunker.
2007-09-18 04:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is stressed or something is worrying him-but you can't go on like this.Tell him that you love him and want to help him but if he won't talk to you about what the problem is then you will leave.
2007-09-18 04:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi....just try to talk to him calmly....try to control your tears and ask him why he is upset or angry...or if that doesnt work out... just take a break from each other.... spend weekend with your friends or send him out with his friends... its normal.... happens when you and your partner are always with each other..life seems to come to a still and everything just irritates. so just take time out...i'm sure it will work...
2007-09-18 04:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by wise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First guess is he is cheating on you, and is afraid your going to find out, so he is on edge afraid of getting caught which is making him easily irritated.
2007-09-18 04:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Laughing with you not at you 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too check out my question.
I dont understand men.
Are you asking a bunch of questions? Or loading him with your feelings?
2007-09-18 04:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
new man time...hes checked out
unless something major is going on in his life
2007-09-18 03:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by stanggt3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's tired of being called "my man" instead of boyfriend or something else. "My man" is such a stupid and possessive term. Are you too possessive of him?
2007-09-18 04:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a new man
2007-09-18 03:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Prohibition Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋