Ex-Fiance still in contact. Does it mean anything?

Question

I posted recently about my breakup and had some great responses. The quick recap is that my fiance broke things off 5 weeks ago and after speaking with her sister I was told that she needed some space alone to work out what she wanted (that she wasn't 100% sure about not being together). Her sister said I should keep in light contact, being friendly and happy. I have sent two emails now (once per week); the first asking if it was okay with her - which she said yes to. The second was a follow up to a couple of questions she asked. Her first response was cold and short, the second much longer and friendlier (still no "love" on the end ;)). My question is this, does this mean anything, the contact, or am I just playing with heartbreak. I love her so deeply and I believe we are soul-mates and that timing in our lives was difficult. She's not the kind of person to play mind games but I wonder if she's doing it for me rather than her ... As I said the second email was friendlier in tone.

Thank you for the response and I understand what you are saying. There isn't really any letting go of the love for me :) I'll love her till the very end even if she's not with me. We had a lot together but we also faced a lot of disappointment and difficulty. Love doesn't mean everything but it means a big part and we do still have more to offer each other, both in terms of emotional development and spiritual. I guess what I'm wondering is whether the contact means she might feel the same way - but I know no one can answer that really ;) I was just looking for someone who may have experienced anything like this who could shed some light on any meaning. Anyway thank you :)

Answer 1

Doesn't really matter Matt, relationships come down to HOW you both love, not the love itself, so your still stuck setting back waiting. Also really you guys didn't have a chance with out something deeper then just the love for loves sake. Thats why we have kiddos, get married and "usually" go to church. It gives us purposes that neither party can beat or beat themselves up about. So with out something like that or atleast the purpose to TRY and figure this world out together, it would of been an act of god to keep it togehter. Sorry relationships don't work the exact way we were taught..... So really doesn't mean anything..... nice to have a continued correspondence, but I'd let go of the love, unless you've got more you can fight for her with, then just "I love you"