Everyone is a double faced person. They lie about ppl. Invent newer lies about ppl and spread them. My problem is inability to become a diplomat. I can't stop telling everyone on their face if i see that they are mistreating or doing injustice to me or anyone.(and usually they don't even support me). Don't they know that God knows they're doing wrong. Or is their no god at all. How can someone enjoy lying. And still who suffers? How do i get rid of my feelings? People say college life is the best part of life. I think its better to have no life than having this
2007-09-18 01:20:38 · 41 answers · asked by e t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Life is difficult. Your feelings are real and you own them. But, you don't have to act on them.People say lots of things that pertain to them or how they perceive things to be or in their opinion how they should be. As you get older other opinion's won't matter as much because you will learn by experience just how wonderful you are and other opinions don't matter. And, you will grow closer to God and know that HE is the only one that truly matters. AND HE LOVES YOU!!!! HE DIED FOR YOU!!!. I find that when I get depressed I read Psalms. Ps 121 is really good. It seems to strengthen me. When you think it is better without life, think of what a blessing you are to those around you and the wonderful example you are. Blessings your way my friend. Love yourself the way God loves you.
2007-09-19 13:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Angelica1951 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh Lord, let this not be. To those who think you are funny - time will tell.
Look... If there is no God then stop caring what other people think and get on with being miserable - because really, at this point, it doesn't matter.
I believe God is here and He cares... and the way I look at it is this...
There is a reason your heart roars towards lies - the "Theory" of evolution has no explanation for this.
Lies are offensive to a spirit influenced by the justice which is only found in the Lord. It is apparent that you have not asked Him to come into your heart, this is not a judgement, but only an acknowledgement of the pain that you feel.
Don't get me wrong - I still 'rage against the machine' called the world and it's incessant lies - from CNN to politics to organized religion to people I know who are intent on making others look more evil than their own heart.
Your pain is not a reason to end it all, it is an indication that God has given you a gift to descern right from wrong.
The problem as I see it is not that others are inherently sinful (we all are) the problem here is that you have been given a gift that no one has shown you how to use.
I am not going to say give your heart to Him and He will make everything alright, but I will say - when you do, things will start to make a lot more sense.
Look to Him... He wants you.
2007-09-19 17:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To quote the great and wise Ozzy Osbourne:
"Suicide is no solution"
Seriously. Do you really want them to win? Because that is what happens when you give up. College is nothing more than High School Plus. It is not the real world and does not really prepare you for the real world.
Stop worrying about everyone else and focus on yourself for a change. What do YOU want? You can't fix everyone else's problems. Only yours.
Take charge of your life and tell everyone you don't care what they say. You don't care what they do. It is not your job to make peace between the ravenous wolves. They can only hurt you if you let them.
Do not take the easy way out.
2007-09-18 01:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by most important person you know 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's never Too late in the day.Why can't you be diplomatic and tactful?It's nothing great to call a blind person a sightless wretched.It's not fair and decent.A collegian is expected to be civilized and well mannered and being blunt is no big deal.You have to change for the better and do so NOW.If millions of people have said and felt that college life is one of the best period of our lives,they can't be wrong and only you are true. For God's sake,at least give it a try..
2007-09-18 01:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like college life is not what you expected. No part of life is the best part. Each part is what we make of it. Make this part better than the last part and make the next part even better.
Everyone is NOT two-faced. There are many wonderful people in this world. Enlarge your circle of friends. Ally yourself with people and groups that share your goals and aspirations. Devote some of your time to serving others and you won't have time to think of your own misery so much.
Additionally, we have to learn to forgive people when they disappoint us. Surely, we disappoint others as well.
2007-09-18 01:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by jaicee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I advise you to stop concentrating on other people's flaws, and look for the good in people.
This is a daily choice of course.
No one is perfect, except God, so why not put your faith and trust in Him. This is what He has to say about you:
For I know the plans I have for you says God, plans for good and not for evil, plans to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you declares the Lord.
Jeremiah chapter 29 v 11- 14
Seek the Lord, while He may be found, call upon Him while He is near.
God bless you!
2007-09-19 00:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I don't have many friends, and an old saying of mine is 'The more people I meet, the more I love my animals.
Though with smiling I do have a few true friends. That I hold close to my heart.
We all need friends and fellowship.
I know where your coming from...and believe me I went through a rough time in college.
And thoughout it too and throughout my chidhood to a divorce.
But now I am an adult,
i wouldn't want it any other way.
Please write me?
2007-09-18 01:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you kill yourself because other people lie? That makes NO sense at all. Ignore them, face them, pray for them... But don't kill yourself because others are stupid. Just live your life to the best that you can and focus on your morals and ethics and energy. Millions believe in God but don't live their lives hour to hour with God in mind. If you believe in Him, then be an great example of Him to others. So when you die of old age, many will remember you for your good words and actions and they will wish that they had been more like you.
Good luck! College life is tough but so is middle school and older age. Nothing gets better unless you get better inward.
2007-09-18 01:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not be dicouraged, these are the end times, and all that you have described has been foretold.
2Ti 3:1 ¶ This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2Ti 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
2Ti 3:3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
2Ti 3:4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
2Ti 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
2Ti 3:6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
2Ti 3:7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
2007-09-18 01:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you're going throught a phase right now, it almost sounds like you're in high school or college, i'm not sure which one it is...But just know that, that part of your life doesnt count for much., and all you have to do is get through it, be tough....Prove to people you're the better person for not lying and sinning as they do. Later on in life those people will pay, karma goes around comes around...and you'll get rewarded for being that better person.
2007-09-18 01:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋