he & i broke up, then asap he slept with ow booty call. then i caught him he got mad..we went 4 mo without speaking. i told him i wasn't mad..my anger left. he was still mad. either said an apology.hard heads us.then last weekend he called using (blocked # on cell) after 12 mid nt. did he see me come home? he started talking i listened. we talked about general things. i didn't want to get into any heavy conversation cause he was drunk!!he hung up then he called back x2. at the end of the last call he said he wanted to see me and asked if i would come over...WHAT!now this is the man that was so mad at me 2 days ago, and this is the man who has been using some old booty call ow , he was the one who said i was too serious,he didn't want a serious r/l. he can't talk to me outside when he is sober. what does the call mean? am i crossing his mind. the next day he left message apologizing for the call. he is my close neighbor. what do i do? i have not returned the call. i just listened.
2007-09-17 23:44:30 · 21 answers · asked by mighty monkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a person is intoxicated, they tend to speak the truth. If you want him back, take him back.
2007-09-17 23:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
It's called the late night drunken booty call and you happen to be the one who he's trying it out on.
If he can't communicate with you, sober, in the cold light of day and start with something reasonable, like, "Want to go for coffee and a quick chat?" then chances are you are just sexual flavour of the moment when he's drunk, hasn't pulled and thinks he can convince you to share his bed.
If he's told you he doesn't want a "serious relationship" then I would believe that. I think there's a word for people like him, it's two, actually: Emotionally Unavailable.
Hope you find someone who does share your goals for a real relationship.
Good luck.
2007-09-18 00:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, whether its what you wana hear or not....unless he can call you sober and make steps to get things back on track you have to assume that its all over and get on with your life, we all do and say stuff when were drunk and it absolutely has to be taken with a pinch of salt. if he wants to make up or even get back with you he can just take the proper steps to do it. good girl aswell for not going over to him even when he lives close by! your worth more than a couple of drunken midnight phone calls, your worth taking out, and being showered with gifts and being told how beautiful you are. OK!!! good luck and dont settle for any less than the very best!
2007-09-17 23:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OH-OOOO You just got a booty call from an ole flame, who was horney&lonely.. That means his other firl friend was/is not available. Other wiase you would'nt have called you!! You know exactly what he's looking for.. And then you may not talk to him for 4 mone months.. This is your game, and ONLY YOU can set your boundries!!
2007-09-18 00:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life and forget this guy. If he respected you, he would call in the daylight not when he's drunk and horny. So, unless he calls at a reasonable hour to ask for a real DATE, hang up or turn on your answering machine.
2007-09-17 23:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He just got drunk horny and fancied a booty call. Looks like you were a desperate last option.
Three girls in the bar rejected him so he thought of you.
Dont dwell on it and move on
2007-09-17 23:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Would be better to have asober conversation with him....a proper one and then on the basis of what passes between you think long and hard as to the do you want him back. Only you can decide if he is worth another go.
2007-09-17 23:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk call from ex boyfriend = BOOTY CALL
2007-09-17 23:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Drunk dialing is not a good sign. Sober dialing is a good sign, if it's someone you wanted to hear from.
2007-09-17 23:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by Bill 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he's called and apologised then leave things as they are, your right he probably still got you on his mind but a drunken call is not good.
2007-09-20 11:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by MANDY D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,don't answer the phone when its him calling drink to come and see you honey hes just using you .if you let him then he well just keep on doing this kick him into touch fast all the best
2007-09-18 01:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by skye 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋