Hello There, When i was 13. My brother went to prison when he was 16 for attempted murder by puttin a knife to his enemys throat ( He was 15 or 16) and threatened to kill him and was going to but police got there in time. He got 5 years in a young offenders prison. Hes now 17 and serving a sentence.
This person that he nearly killed ruined his childhood, By threatening him day in day out And jumping him with his friends. But you know.
And he wants me to go into contact with him?
But the thing is he thinks its a joke in court, The court told him his sentence our hole family cried and screaming and all he said to the judge was " life goes on its nothing ".
Is he a bad person? Should i go to see him?
Im from the UK aswell.
And our young offenders prison quiet ruff aswell?
2007-09-17 22:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In the US we have what we call a juvenile detention center/jail which is I'm assuming a translation to the young offenders prison.
Your brother is not a bad person. It's just the attitude that comes with being mentally and emotionally abused. Prison does things to people.
Go ahead and see him and tell him that you love him and that you are by his side then he will know that he has family waiting for him and that will make him a little better of a person.
He is still family. Go visit him if you feel comfortable to do it. If you're not then don't. My suggestion is go. He needs the love that he can get because it's torture everyday in prison.
2007-09-17 23:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny Bananas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm not sure if I will be much help, but I will try, as I know a young guy in the UK who is similar.
From what you are saying, I don't think your brother is a 'bad person' as such; sure he has done some bad things, but maybe he needs some professional help like a counsellor or social worker? Perhaps he is scarred by his past, and feels that he has to be 'tough'? I myself was bullied, and felt afterwards like I had to be tougher for a while. It is hard, and I really hope that he, you and your family and friends find a peaceful solution!
2007-09-17 23:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by sydgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bad person? Let's see, lacking in forgiveness, compassion, consious, accountability, caring for families and seems to be no more than fecal matter. Request an audience with the Queen. Go to the top with it. You all deserve your brother back. All you can learn in prison is how to be a better criminal, he's not one.
2007-09-17 23:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Paul E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I in basic terms stated that BB might desire to have positioned Alex in there previously throwing her out. it would have been stable for her to experience a touch humiliation, like the way she's been treating the quite a few housemates in there. what's the component of the penal complex in the event that they have not stricken to apply it. It won't have an identical impression now, as they have already thrown Alex out for her behaviour, so could they be waiting to place somebody in the detention center for a lesser fee?
2017-01-02 08:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your brother is very selfish. He is your older brother and he should want to protect you from getting involved in similar situations, not promote the idea to you. Stay away from your brother and from his friends. He needs to grow up.
2007-09-18 00:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by wife2denizmoi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't get involved. hes trying to get you into middle and something could happen to you. just dn't do nothing leave it alone and just forget it. i ts not worth it to try and talk to this person or whatever. yes hes not good he did this to another human being. its bad and there is't a good time for this type of stuff stay away and clear.
2007-09-21 13:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you have to go visit him as often as you can he needs
your support.No he is not a bad person maybe he was just a
victim of circumstance.Don't disconnect yourself from your brother.This might bring the family closer.
2007-09-18 02:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go and see your brother, he needs you. Maybe you can help him change his ways.
2007-09-17 22:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by ǝsɹnuʎxǝs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should go see him. That's your blood regardless of his wrong doings
2007-09-17 23:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Curiousone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋