why a married woman slept with me on my mission isnt she a tramp in your opion?

Question

i was doing my.2. year mission work for the church i was right out of. mtc. and this married woman who had.4. kids and a husband was always commming on to me well one day it happened in her home.her husband was gone and we had sex in her home i was.19. she was.45. she was nothing really to get in bed . but wasnt it her fault for being shuch a tramp where she was married my copanion watched and well she did him as well on different times . different days is my meaning. i hated her man as well .i only did her where i couldnt stand her man or really her either wasnt it more her fault than mine yes i am morman i was doing my.2. year missionary work. but i never ran upon shuch a cheap tramp like her in my whole life her belly had streach marks like crazy a trun off but it happened on different times with me and her she was a w.va pig as well a whore in my thoughts as well she thought i loved her no way i just used her . as she wanted. isnt she more at fault than me where she was older

she even stole some of her husbands midication and gave me and my copanion.it.he belived her when she told him she had washed it on different times

at her age wouldt she be more to blame for her actions rather than me as well my copanion for letting me have a sexual relanship with her in her home different times ?

she had her tubes tied as well i almost forgot to add that

Answer 1

I really hope you were excommunicated and I dont think I have ever said that to anyone.

Answer 2

I suggest you go back to school and pay more attention during English and effective writing before you do any more missionary work. Your whole story makes very little sense. No, you were an adult, in full control of your faculties. (I am speaking generally about 19 year olds, from your above paragraph I have doubts you are in much control of anything.) This is just as much your sin as it is hers. Just because a woman spreads her legs doesn't mean you have to fall into them. If she is a tramp, and she loved you, what does that make you?You said you had no feelings for her at all (except repulsion) and still you had sex with her?

Answer 3

At 19 you are a Adult, it sounds consensual, you were a willing participant, you are as equally guilty as she is as your buddy who watched is. Being on a Mission and doing this is just as bad on Top of the Adultery committed. You have to take responsibility for your own actions and behavior, she might have been a tramp committing adultery but your sin is the only sin in the Bible described as a 'worse sin' which is committing such a sin as you did and pretending to be religious at the same time. You are a hypocrite and a s l u t.

Answer 4

You better go tell you Bishop. You really should have told your mission President at the time. You are about to be excommunicated!
You were a RAT (or worse) for doing that with her!

Gretta, you are very correct on you note above.

What is talked about here from a former Mormon Missionary is VERY wrong! Not allowed and not tolerated if known by any of the church leaders!

Answer 5

So you are out on a mission, found a den of iniquity and just kept going back for more.
Fornication
Adultery
Drugs and hate.
What organization sends some one like you out on a mission I really want to know.
Is it possible you don't realize or care that the only thing you have proved here is you are also a tramp?
No she isn't more at fault than you.
I'm having trouble even believing this isn't a daydream you just had to share.

Answer 6

In my opinion- you chose to sleep with a married woman, and you can her a tramp? She may be older, but you were the one on a mission trip- don't you know that it it was wrong? you admit you hated her husband too- isn't hatred a sin in the eyes of God? At least you admitted you used her, how about asking God to forgive you. She is wrong for sleeping with you, yes, but you did not say no did you. Unbelievable how we can justify sin, and blame the other person- sounds like Adam and Eve huh?

Answer 7

Actually you both sinned against God and commited adultery both of you are in the same boat after all you know she is married too even if she was not married since you are obviously not married to each other you would have committed fornication which is also a sin of the same strength. You want all the blame on her, but you say you used her and did not love her but let her think you did love her, older or not you are both in the same boat!Your thoughts are biased and wrong you are in the wrong big time too!

Answer 8

Well by your own words she had apparently been "gotten" into bed... I can't help but feel you had your own part to play in this. If she is a tramp, then what are you my friend? You are the one on a mission here.

As far as the age difference, do you honestly believe your age difference determines who was accountable? It takes 2 to tango, my friend. Unless you somehow aren't accountable for your own actions by virtue of the number of seasons having passed in your lifetime. Besides why are you talking crap about someone who gave you sex on your... mission... are you hurt because you couldn't persue a relationship with her? How Christian-like is it for you to be dogging her on the internet? Are you disgusted with her or yourself? Lots of questions could be raised here, but it seems like you are avoiding any personal responsibility here...

Answer 9

I can imagine what kind of "missionary" work you were doing. If she is a tramp; you are too. A nineteen year old is reasonably old enough to make decisions about sexuality, so don't try to put your responsibility (or lack thereof) on her. A zipper can go up as well as down!

You are seriously conflicted....you say you were doing missionary work and you talk about this woman with such ugly and degrading terms...you do things that are disrespectful to her, take drugs and then want to cop out and say it was her fault????what kind of religion is this?????

Answer 10

pal read revalition.21.vs.7.-8. on this matter. ok you have broken.5. of the.10. commandments in the bible . i know about mormon thelogy. and you dont know nothing about the real bible except the boook of mormon . you are just as guilty if not more than her you knew she waas married with. kids you only thought of your wants as for her being a whore what does that make you in gods eyes not smith.s eyes you dont even belive in hell pal i read that trash you call the book of mormon i also know the bible states you reap what you have sown . you broke a marrage up for starters you and your so called copanion. well in due time god will repay very bible you are trash pal fact. my opion?fact///

Answer 11

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