I live in a big college town, but dont drink, smoke, or party that much and it seems like the girls i meet are either party girls or very religious. Does anyone know where to meet girls who have values but are not crazy into religion?
2007-09-17 18:31:33 · 12 answers · asked by scottstown2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try volunteering on campus or in the community and see who you meet there....also, I know you don't want to drink, which is great, but if you meet a girl that does drink a little bit, maybe you can help her out. You don't have to write her off completely or avoid her. Have the courage of your convictions and maybe there's a girl out there who wants to stop drinking, but just needs to find a good boyfriend like yourself who can lead her in the right direction. Ya know? Best of luck my man.
2007-09-17 18:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by DN1503 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the college library, or maybe the student center or something like that.
You said you don't drink, smoke, or party "that much".
To be completely honest, most of the girls at parties don't do those things that much either.
They're just there for the social aspect.
Just remember that you're not the only one looking for a significant other.
You'll find someone!
2007-09-18 01:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by kennedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try contacting me, lol. I fit your description exactly. I DO believe in God, but don't attend church reguarly, and this isn't why I don't drink, don't smoke or party. It's just not me...my friends love me, I have a blast with my friends, at a "party" i feel drunk without touching a drop. My friends are the same. I do occasionally drink but have never been drunk and I am 22. Don't give up on that girl...I could count on one hand girls that would adore what you just described to me.
2007-09-18 01:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by KissesnKuddles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, thanks for realizing that religious girls are not the only girl that have morals and values.
Somebody else mentioned volunteering, which is a good idea. Try looking up clubs and organizations around the town that you are interested in. Hang out in book stores. Ask your friends if they know any girls like the ones you are interested in.
Good luck!
2007-09-18 01:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
classes, public venues i.e. restaurants, movies, supermarket, etc., designated drivers at parties.(probably wouldn't if they had plans with some one special.) parks, swimming pools. conventions for different interests. carnivals. basically get out and aproach people. talk to someone on the bus about something general. they may have a friend/ relative that needs might like you who knows. mostly be visible and be friendly. get involved in the community. Just get out and about and someone will stick out to you.
2007-09-18 01:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Gray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you saying people that party have no values. But anyways it couldnt hurt to go to daytime places like maybe parks or a gym/rec center or somthing like that.
2007-09-18 01:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good girls normally are found in the libraries, churches, civic organization. gyms and sports arena.
2007-09-18 01:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lorna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my other half through a mutal friend, he like you does not drink, smoke or gamble. total bliss.
2007-09-18 01:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i know.on beaches.at work.at school.at collage.there are lots who do not drink or go to church.but most will go to bed
2007-09-18 01:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by chrisy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the library.
2007-09-18 01:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by Peas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋