i really care about a person so much i cant even explain. But the thing is this person has so much hate inside of him...most of it having to do with his mom in his childhood...this person opened up to me after a while and also told me he cares about me.. and like me a lot but now hes telling me i can do better and that he dosent want to hurt me..so he decided we shouldnt talk any more :(
i honestly never beg and i told him if thats what he want than so be it.
should i just let it go? even though i want to be there for him?? Im not sure what to do :(
2007-09-17 18:11:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should let it go he has issues to work out and you really don't want to get involved with them trust me on that. If at all possible just let him know that you are there for him if he ever needs you in any way. Once he is done or is atleast good with himself he will let you in. Just be patient good things come to those who wait
2007-09-17 18:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about him & he said he likes you then, why don't you give it a shot?!? He's got a bitter childhood with his mom but it's already in the past. You may help as an eye opener to him that there's so much more to life in the future than being hateful regarding the past. Good luck!
2007-09-18 01:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by zynjen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very difficult question. There may be underlining problems that will be very hard for you to cope with. If you really care enough for him, you could probably get him to go to therapy to deal with his inner demons, but many times it is a chore getting them to admit that they need outside help. I would not get too involved until he gets the help he needs. He seems to know that he has problems, and you can not be sure exactly what they are, or how seriously they would affect you should you develop a relationship with him.
2007-09-18 05:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who has been abused by his mother (which is what it sounds like) may have emotional problems.
I would touch base with him casually (sending funny jokes via email)
If he does have a mental problem you may have just dodged a bullet.
2007-09-18 01:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is right
a guy like that need to get himself together
don't EVER hook up with a mental loser like him
in the same way a guy should never hook up with a emo girl,
life's to short for any drama or pity cases
2007-09-18 01:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has low self esteem and feels like you're too good for him. i don't think he doesn't want to talk to you. i think all of his other problems are making him think that maybe if you and him do get together he'll just somehow make that another problem. he doesn't want you to get hurt.
2007-09-18 01:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by shopaholic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to him. Reaffirm him that he's not hurting you and you want to help him through his troubles.
2007-09-18 01:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should help him, don't leave him alone, even though he said that, he needs you
2007-09-18 01:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by LG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..give him some time....and be there for him even if he doesn't want you there...tell him how you feel and don't leave anything out
2007-09-18 01:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by prettycutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋