This is really happened to me.Im in love with a girl she loves me alot.Unfortunately she got married(arranged) to another guy.She still loves me.Im very depressed by this.Our past n sweet memories are dwelling in my mind.Im unable to bare this pain.But when i ask her about pain,she says not having like me,she is normal.Im weeping like anything,im unable to control my emotions.how she is doing sex with him it hurts me the most how she feels doing with him. Then wat is the difference between she n me.How to change my mind from her how to control my thoughts.But if our past comes into my mind i cant stop crying.how to move away from this. Need serious answers plzzzz..........
2007-09-17 17:45:58 · 5 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I know exactly what you're going through. I was with my ex-boyfriend for almost two years, and he also had an arranged marriage for him when he turned 22. (I didn't know this until his mother told me). And of course I was heart broken because he was my first love. But, he would have rather keep the respect of his family then risk his family disowning him. So that is probably what she had to do also. The only thing that you can do is keep yourself busy. Because sitting around thinking about the past doesn't do anything but make you more depressed. Have your friends around you alot, go out, just try to have some fun. And only time will help it be less painful. Sorry you're going through such a rough time though :/
2007-09-17 18:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over a broken heart. She has evidently been conditioned to deal with this situation, as it was expected of her. You on the other hand, allow yourself to be more emotional about the situation. It will take time, but eventually you will be able to move on. Just try to occupy yourself as best as possible until you feel like you can move on.
2007-09-17 17:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing accept tha you and her is finished....she married right?, now move on find time to make yourself occuppied, make yourself busy, your mind working, find ways to do things that makes your mind active thinking of what your doing , so you wont think about her..and go out meet new friends and enjoy!
2007-09-17 17:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by dikya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all threat in the time of breaks, long weekends, summer season, video chatting. do no longer forget approximately, there is often texting additionally :) Be fortunate she's purely an hour & a one million/2 away. you have many opportunities to verify her :)
2016-10-04 22:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest u read book titled "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne. It helps me a lot and I'm sure it will help u too.
2007-09-17 18:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Vig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋