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How does the "average" guy in his 40's (early 40's) view an 18- or 19-year-old? As sexy and someone he would sleep with if no one would ever know (and if there wasn't the cultural taboo)? Or more as his daughter?

2007-09-17 16:16:53 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I think the average man would, just like the average woman in her forties would jump at a chance for an eighteen year old man.....What's good for the goose is good for the gander............XXX

2007-09-17 16:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Baxtersmom 3 · 1 0

What men can say they're average, when some men die before they even reach 30 or 40. A lot of men get divorced at different ages too. Most guys however are pigs, but some men will even marry younger women & be able to have it work. An early 40's man, like a younger man would either be with a young woman for love or to use them. If say I were an older man, I would be with a younger woman for love not just to sleep with them, but most men even much older than 40's never learn appreciation. How younger women are thought of is I'd say it depends on the maturity level of the younger woman. Older men even in 50's marry women in their 20's for love & sometimes those marriages can last. A decent guy would "sleep with" a younger woman in marriage if they married them. A user guy would do it for other reasons. Also some men age slower than other men physically just look at some famous men who look young for their age. Some men lose weight and get fit. I used to think differently till I found out people have made it work despite lack of social approval & the odds because not everybody is the same. I would probably say 23 years difference would be my limit & only if they were at least in their 2nd year of college or out of high school for more than a year if I were in my before mid 40's

2007-09-18 17:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

A man that age WOULD sleep with an 18 year old. He wouldn't even see it as his luckiest day of his life but more or less understandable. Guys can walk around with a belly protruding their bodies, 3 toothpick hairs, a beard, and still think they're the finest thing since sliced bread.

Some men would seem them young enough to be their daughters. Some men would see them as young women old enough to make some rational decisions.

Some people see it as taboo. In this era? Honey, what isn't seen as taboo. Taboo is overrated. As is everything controversial on this planet. Some people need to get those foots of the past out of their @$$es.

But hey, we're all opinionated, are we not?

2007-09-17 16:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by LadyD 4 · 1 0

Most men would probably sleep with her if there was mutual attraction or if an 18 y/o gave them the time of day/showed a little interest. Some would view them as the daughter type, but I don't think that would stop them from acting on it...It doesn't matter, why do you think women like Catherine Zeta Jones are with men like Michael Douglas (hes rich, but he's also about 20 years her senior). I don't think people worry about taboo much anymore.

2007-09-17 16:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

If a guy in his 40's doesn't see a huge maturity difference with an 18 yr. old then he must be very immature himself. And that lack of maturity would make him see her as sexy and sleepworthy; otherwise, he would see her as a daughter figure. I'm 40 and girls that young just irritate me when they open their mouth. Over 21 relationships are much more culturally acceptable for a reason.

2007-09-17 16:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by wow 4 · 0 0

18/19 is of legal age. I prefer older women, but the question is, why would an 18 year old sleep with a relic? If she were so inclined, my guess would be that a 40 year old guy would sleep with her in a New York minute.

2007-09-17 16:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

The average guy in his 40's would see an 18 yr old as a child. If you're that age right now, I'm sure it's hard to believe, but by the time you're in your mid 20's, you'll see what I mean.

So, I don't think the average 40 yr old (male or female) would sleep with an 18 yr old. I'm sure there are exceptions to this, though.

2007-09-17 16:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 0 2

as i does no longer bypass out with an 18 or 19 365 days previous (and im plenty older than 40) its no longer suitable --- would i sleep with a woman over 20?? confident i'd provided there advance into plenty extra suitable than intercourse in contact and that i does no longer care who knew --- i say this as my woman is plenty youthful than i'm yet her age is the final element i think of of -- she is mature clever humorous and cares for me in a manner i hit upon perplexing to have self assurance --- and confident I fairly have 2 daughters 30 and 24 and no i dont experience like i'd be drowsing with them (no longer that that has occurred)

2016-10-04 22:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

No, this is wrong a 40 year old man should find a women closer to his own age, if he does mess around with an 18 year old he's a creep and a player

2007-09-17 16:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0 0

I took a 19 year old out for a meal and when it came to order the meal the waitress asked what my daughter wanted.Felt ashamed and then started thinking what a dirty old man I was so never again.And yes I did have the chance to sleep with her but after that comment did not seem somehow right

2007-09-17 16:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 2 · 0 0

Do bears crap in the woods? Some men in their 40's would be flattered as hell that an 18 year old would sleep with them. That's about the age when they begin their midlife crisis and need to feel that they are still desireable.

2007-09-17 16:25:17 · answer #11 · answered by kathi1vee 5 · 0 0

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