How/why can a guy sleep with a girl multiple times, but still just want to be friends???? What does that mean?
2007-09-17 16:11:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugh. This is a difficult question to answer. It sounds like from a physical standpoint, this guy really really likes this girl. However, it sounds like he's just not ready to fall into an emotional relationship. How can that happen . . . ? Many many times when people see each other, date, etc. each person's feelings are at different parts of the spectrum. When each person feels the same, that's when you found that right person . . .
2007-09-17 16:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because sex is a physical activity for most men if there is no commitment. Women feel and give much more than that. It's love,commitment,future, things like that. Lots of men or boys play games to hit it and quit it. Or have a list of #s to call for some action,or a booty call, friends with benefits.... etc. If you are looking for a relationship tell him. When you don't get the answer you want tell him NEXT ...Their is someone out there that will make you happy and exceed your dreams. Look for him.
Think of your wants and needs as a woman and go for it
2007-09-17 23:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by sandman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means he can get laid and not have to have any responsiblilities. You've been snookered my dear!
He's doing the exact same thing with other girls. Don't you have an older gal that can give you some hints?
1st thing is get away from him and the second thing is to get some advice from a woman who's older than you.
You're making a fool out of yourself.
You really need to talk to someone.
2007-09-17 23:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically he see's her as being OK to have sex with but not good enough to "go out" with.
He is using her as a means to "get off ".
This says a great deal about the kind of person he really is.The girl involved would be better off telling him to take a hike and get re-acquainted with his hand,
2007-09-17 23:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by canada_guy_01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unlike girls many guys like to have sex with out getting emotionally involved and do it for the pleasure, most girls become attached. Be selective on what you do and you will be ok
2007-09-17 23:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by RA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he just wants sex for the physical pleasure of it, not because he cares about her. He thinks of her as a sex toy, and nothing more. It's horrible to think of such things, but some guys are just that shallow.
2007-09-17 23:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Blank 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because? Because guys are like so " You love em, you hate em. Can't live with or without them. However, it's wrong to do that. He's probably sleeping around. Sorry chica.
Best of luck :)
2007-09-17 23:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. he only want to play with her
2. he has a spare tire to release his urge on bed
3. no obligation to responsible on his action
4. he can flirt and claim he still single out there and if he doesnt get any gal at least he has SHE
5. stupid gal or.. uhm.. willingly gal?
2007-09-17 23:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm..several things lol
1) he wants you just for your body not a relationship
2) jerkface
3)he feels akward around the person
4)friends with benefits
5)not ready for a real relationship
hope it helps
2007-09-17 23:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by masterknight14 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
plain and simple he wants a sleeping budy
2007-09-17 23:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by anthony r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋