I like to sing and I enjoy singing to/ for my boyfriend. However, he doesn't like to sing and doesn't even do it for fun. I know he's shy in this area. How can I get him to sing to/ for me even if it's for fun? I never asked him to sing in a crowd, only when we're alone. We have talked about doing karaoke but it hasn't happend yet. Thanks.
2007-09-17 15:47:42 · 19 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mabye just play a song in the car and ask him to sing along mabye a song he really likes and turn it up and he will sing just dont make him start out by just singing he sounds like you need to build his confidence and you can do that by encouraging him and saying that he sings good even if he really doesn't and pretty soon he will just have a little singing moment i do the same thing with my girlfriend i was shy about singing in front of her.......
2007-09-17 15:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is apparent that the secret hasn't been illuminated to you yet.
There is a magical spell you must cast upon him which will draw the most glorious song from his lips.
First: place him in a chair in the middle of a texas chapel and draw a chalk circle around it
Second: shoot him with a squirt gun filled with cranberry juice while singing "someone's in the kitchen with dinah"
Finally: catch the tear of a phoenix and save it in a glass capsule. Thrust the capsule at his feet where it will explode with a cloud of pink dust.
After finishing these three tasks will your boyfriend sing you the sweetest song you've ever heard.
It will probably be home on the range.
2007-09-17 15:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by newslang586 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You, as a girlfriend, generally have a huge degree of control over a boyfriend, meaning you can make him do things he thinks are silly/ humiliating. Ask him, flirt, touch him casually alot, flirt, and keep asking, look into his eyes then start to sing a bit of the start of a song you know he knows. He'll do it.
2007-09-17 15:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my boyfriend sings to me all the time. prolly like what u do to ur bf. but my bf never asked me or pushed me to sing because he knew i wasnt comfortable and didnt want to. after i got so comfortable w/ him, i didnt care how bad i sounded against him (kuz hes a pretty good singer) and i start singing w/ him. we go to karaokes together and sing all the time now. we're both music freaks and think bout song lyrics all the time. but before when i never used to sing around him, or w/ him, it was becasue i knew i sounded bad and i was afraid of what he would think if he heard me. but as our relationship got stronger in so many ways, i learned to jus be myself around him and not worry bout how he would react. so try not to push ur bf. if he doesnt wanna sing, dont make it. this is something the relationship isnt worth putting focus on
2007-09-17 16:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a girl but my boyfriend sings to me, it's not corny at all, he's a singer in a band and sometimes it's cute but mostly it's sexy because when he sings, he has sort of a growl in his voice and it just turns me on sooo much
2016-03-18 07:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in together one night and have a couple of drinks to loosen him up and start singing along to something he likes, he is sure to join in.
or try at a party with all his friends, if everyone is doing it he might feel less shy and the next time you are alone he might be more inclined to sing for you.
it may take time b4 he feels comfortable enough around you to embarass himself.
2007-09-17 15:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mybaby_lucius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a song he likes in particular? buy it and play it over and over and maybe he'll sing with it. He needs to find that one song that goes with his voice for starters. There are songs we shouldn't sing for obvious reasons. (wrong key) but try that and see if he comes around. Maybe something easy may coax him out of that shell.
2007-09-17 15:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by benzeir1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bring another girl the next time you have sex with him or two girls or three ... he'll sing his heart out every day and dont just bring the other girls once do it a lot like 50 or 60 times and you will guarantee that he will never leave you. mixing it up is the key to longevity and if you're too selfish to do this then he'll dump you soon
2007-09-25 11:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should really respect him of this but if you must be alone and try making him sing your guy's love song
2007-09-25 14:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-15 23:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋