I have been seeing this guy for a month and we started sleeping together, he went down on me the first night and has done several times since. Now he wants me to return the favor and I am really weary about doing it and I told him that and he seemed fine with it. Am I being immature? I didn't ask him to do it for me, he made that decision. I have done it before but its been with someone I am 100% comfortable with, I know that sounds stupid b/c I have already slept with him but I was just curious from a guys POV what is he thinking?? does he feel rejected?? I was in shock that he did it w/o hesitation and he has done it a lot and very well might I add. What do you guys think? Does this mean he is really into me or is it just a part of sex? Oral just seems more intimate
2007-09-17 15:37:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally like going down on a girl.He probably does too or maybe he just wants to please you. He may feel a little rejected because he might think "this girl doesn't think I'm special enough to go down on me" I guess it really depends on your true reason for not wanting to go down on him. Is it because you think it's kinda gross or is because you think it's more intimate than sex and you're not ready for it yet?. I just don't understand how you're comfortable having sex with him but not with oral sex.
2007-09-21 12:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Seamus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it right away and has done it several times after that, he probably just enjoys giving it to you and like the reaction he receives...
2007-09-17 20:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by yadovitiy_cheburashka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like giving oral. i dont and so i never have. if you ask for it, you should give it. but if he keeps doing it even when you dont give him head, dont feel obligated to that might just mean he likes giving it. he prob likes pleasuring you. just ask him if he would like it.
2007-09-17 15:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by John 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think in a relationship, its not just about sex. he HAVE to respect your body. he shldnt force you, if you dont feel like it. i think this is mutual respect. but remember, you must learn to say NO!
GOOD LUCK in it :)
2007-09-17 15:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by alf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋