2007-09-17 14:49:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't recommend it but it is possible i guess
but you should always keep your options open and not limit yourself to one guy
hey i need help tooo
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good luck
2007-09-17 14:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, sorry. 14 years old is too young to actually know what real love is.
Real love takes time and commitment on both parts to make the relationship work.
Real love is there even when the bills don't get paid, the car breaks down, the boss is on your back, you don't have money for groceries, and all of the trials that life throws at you. True love is still there, still strong. What does a 14 year old know about these things? True love means the couple knows they don't have to agree on everything, but the important things, like religion, how to parent, and who pays what bills, those things are agreed upon in advance. What does a 14 year old know about these things? True love isn't jealous and doesn't get mad when the other partner talks to another person of the opposite sex because they know that that person is THEIR partner, and will be climbing into bed with them that night, not the person they choose to have a conversation with. True love eats the dinner the wife fixes even though it's burnt or tastes bad, just because he doesn't want to see her cry. True love grows old together knowing that their love will truly last forever because they have built a lifetime of dreams, and a family together. What does a 14 year old know about these things?
2007-09-17 14:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky question - two different answers....Yes and No
Yes - if you're asking a 14 year old that was born before 1960. ((the marriages of these generations lasted because divorce was not an option))
No - if you're asking a 14 year old that was born after 1970. ((a divorce was made too simple and easy to obtain after the 70s, so a lot of people were quick to jump to this option.))
The time between the 60s & 70s is kind of iffy. It was the "make love not war" era, and drugs were really rampant. So, it was hard for most marriages to survive this era.
2007-09-17 14:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very likely, and ten years from now she'll realize it, and laugh at the silly thought.
Even though they think they are mature, 14 year olds have no concept of true love.
True love is caring for an elderly spouse who has had Alzheimer's Disease for 10 years. True love is staying up all night taking care of a pregnant wife. True love is not giving up when finances are running low.
2007-09-17 14:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by ardnark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend has was 14 and her husband was 21. She is now 33 and in a very happy healthy relationship with two kids. I dont' think age has anything to do with it. Being mature and responsible does. She has never been with any other guy and doesn't care to be. To each their own. Good luck!
2007-09-17 15:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how in love the 14 year old live. If the [girl or guy] think that guy is perfect for them, he is. But they must give time before they can determine the true answer to this question. True love takes time.
2007-09-17 14:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 14 you need to nurture your friendship first. Mainly because you aren't mature enough to know the difference between love and enfatuation.
Most teenagers go through several relationships before finding that one person they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
I'm not saying it isn't impossible, but you have to do a lot of work to get things to work out before you commit yourself to just one person.
2007-09-17 14:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, you never know. if the love is strong enough then yes and i wish the 14 year old the best because to be in love is a great thing
2007-09-17 14:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by M-D-H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the odds are pretty slim - unless you are mature for your age, it's likely that you don't realize what the word LOVE truly means...
ANYTHING is possible though - just follow your heart, and use your BRAIN to make sure it's leading you in the right direction :):):)
2007-09-17 14:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitley not , as you get older and meet other guys and experience different adventures,develope new opinions,be come more mature and experience the whole gamut of intervention that are waiting out there for you.....Usually one of you will out grow the other and you will basically become strangers to one another.
You will see later in life that this is true. ....of course that is impossible for you to see this now.
2007-09-17 15:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by robinhood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly , but not probably . Things change. what may seem great now , may seem totally inane down the road. Circumstance change, people move , they desire different things, they find out that it's a big world out there.
2007-09-17 15:00:22 · answer #11 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋