No, I don't mean can "you," like, people, in general.
I mean, you, specifically.
Have YOU ever managed to both LOVE and HATE someone?
[[No, I haven't decided how to fit this into religion and spirituality yet, but I'll figure it out, eventually...]]
2007-09-17 14:42:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yep, Zalem.
It's you.
Sorry, that you had to find out this way.
Tehe.
Don't worry, I don't hate you...
...yet.
2007-09-17 14:49:32 · update #1
That's it, Zalem.
I seriously hate you,
now.
I'm not kidding!
Seriously!
Hatred!
Come on, I'm seriously not kidding!
Wtf!? Why the hell are you laughing at me!
THIS IS NOT FUNNY!
I seriously hate you now!
*sigh....*
2007-09-17 15:03:56 · update #2
Oh, didn't you hear?
My church taught me that I can't forgive.
And no, I'm not kidding.
I was seriously don't that I cannot forgive people, by a previous interim pastor.
I never liked him....
But still,
According to everyone that, I'm incapable of forgiveness.
They were kind blunt about it, too....
Meanieheads...
2007-09-17 15:08:55 · update #3
BETTER EDIT [[without typos]]
[[corrections in caps]]
Oh, didn't you hear?
My church taught me that I can't forgive.
And no, I'm not kidding.
I was seriously TOLD that I cannot forgive people, by a previous interim pastor.
I never liked him....
But still,
According to everyone THERE, I'm incapable of forgiveness.
They were kind blunt about it, too....
Meanieheads...
2007-09-17 15:10:18 · update #4
Sorry if I was unclear--I was kidding about hating Zalem; I could never hate Zalem =)
When I said "no, I'm not kidding," I was referring to being told by my church that I am incapable for forgiveness--most people do not believe that, so I said I wasn't kidding.
Sorry, all, for the conclusion.
2007-09-17 15:36:11 · update #5
Not one iota.
2007-09-17 15:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Soundproof 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't remember anyone that I've ever actually 'hated.' Not liked very much, perhaps, but not hated by the standard definition of the word.
But I have loved more than one person who's actions I did not approve of or like. In other words, I have loved someone that I ended up not liking very much. Perhaps I became dismayed, disappointed or disillusioned with them. But if I could love someone I couldn't imagine ever hating them afterwards.
2007-09-18 00:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Watson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Although I don't like to admit it. My mother is a good example. I loved her because she was my mother and loved me the best she could, but I hated her because she caused a lot of problems in my life, was always fearful and angry, distrustful of people, hurtful, and so on. She didn't know how to love. Of course, when I came to Christ I no longer hated her, just hated her actions and bad behavior and mostly felt very sorry for her.
2007-09-17 21:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by William D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-09-17 21:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by NONAME 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Hate is the highest form of passion. You can't truly hate someone unless you have some kind of emotional bond with them.
2007-09-17 21:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by ◦Delylah◦ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think yes to a certin degree, b/c if you love the person you cant hate them, you could probably dislike them for a while. but i wouldnt go too far as to say hate
2007-09-17 21:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by sgniqua1112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, family members since we can all have love/hate relationships with them at times.
2007-09-17 21:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by ♆Şрhĩņxy - Lost In Time. 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but when I have to do it at the same time, the inner conflict it creates hurts a lot. I try to avoid it.
2007-09-17 21:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by krissiepearse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my ex-wife, because we are inseparable and separated at the same time. We are raising our son, so always talk to have a unified approach to problems, and rewards.
2007-09-17 22:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES, there is a very fine line between
Love & Hate...its easy to slip into either
very easily....
2007-09-17 21:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kerilyn 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because love and hate are not opposites.
The opposite of love is apathy.
2007-09-17 21:48:38 · answer #11 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋