look, I like this guy and I told him I liked him right he knew my feelings for him n everything one day he decided to do friends with benifits kinda deal. Everything was goin fine until one day on valentines day i decided to reveal how i actually feel for him to him. But he don't want nething to do with me. So, I ask my self this question n don't know the answer. If he had no feelings for me then y wit this fooling around with me. so i ask this Wat's the reason for this happening?
2007-09-17 14:40:26 · 6 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a GUY. Sex without emotional commitment is total guy thing. Once you brought emotions into it he didn't want to have anything more to do with you because it would require effort on his part to continue. Clearly, he's not ready for that right now, so the reason for this to happen is to show you what a shallow twerp he really is, and how you could do so much better with someone else. Drop him and move on. :)
2007-09-17 14:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Donna Lee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to think that bad things like this happen because there was a lesson to be learned. Now you know the negative side of the whole "friends with benefits" deal. Don't agree to do something like that with someone you really like. It's called FRIENDS with benefits for a reason....because there are supposed to be no emotional ties between the two people. Just remember you learn and grow from heart breaks.
2007-09-17 21:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by linkinparkchick1605 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason its happening is cause you let him fool around most boys dont need feelings to fool around and most girls do happened so you know that and dont do it again
2007-09-17 21:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a guy and he only wanted sex. That is what "friends with benefits" is. He did not want any emotional attachments just sex and since he told you that, he expected that you were fine with that. It is not you.
2007-09-17 21:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sadly, he's a jerk and you made the mistake of not realising it. reason? so you'd learn not to make the same mistake.. or maybe it will lead you to a guy that's better for you
2007-09-17 21:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
comeon...u told everything..and now ur asking why was he with u...lolzz....u were giving him all that a guy wants (from wife/gf/friends with benefirs)....u were giving him ur body and satisfaction..so..why r u asking now?..u r jerk...and dumb too!
2007-09-17 21:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Honest_&_Loyal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋