I was driving my boyfriend and some friends to the bar and my bra (brand new) started pinching me and feeling really really uncomfortable. I tried to ignore it, but it was unbearable. So, at the stop light I took it off (it was very easy because I just wearing a camisole and nothing popped out, just reach around unhook and pull the arms off one by one).
My boyfriend got pissed off though and said that I was just being slutty and trying to tease his friends.
I do not regret my decision to take the bra off, because it was really too irritating, and I thought I took it off properly.
But do you agree that taking it off how I did is slutty?
2007-09-17 14:18:54 · 28 answers · asked by Susan 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think I should suffer just because other people are around.
2007-09-17 14:20:01 · update #1
NO! Its your body all us girls know that bra's can be hell sometimes. Why Suffer when you can do something as simple as taking it off!?! You did the right thing....I would have done the same thing if i were you. Guys don't whir bra's so they have no idea what it fills like when something ( even if its cute! ) Is poking the **** out off you. You know he'd take it off if he was girl...so why dos it bother him so long. Try telling why you toke it off! Maybe that will help!
Good luck
In no that doesn't make you a slut!!!
2007-09-17 14:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sara D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no girl what you did does not make you slutty if you would have took it off and your you know what was showing then yeah that is and very disrespectful to him and yourself but no you should not have 2 suffer for anybody in this world im telling you girl think about it if you being comfortable makes others comfortable only you came into this world only you will leave this world so while you alive now you do what you have 2 do to please yourself and your man but thats a big if and it depends on what he wants but no what u did was not slutty dont stress over that cus its nothin but also did you tell him why you did it
2007-09-25 12:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by babigurl_mixed05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoooo thats something girls should always do. Lol I think theres nothing wrong with fixing something thats annoying. How you dealt with it doesn't make you slutty, just be happy the problem was solve, like you said don't regret anything about it and don't think its wrong XD I hope I've helped, cause you shouldn't feel down for such a reason
2007-09-17 14:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..taking of your bra is not slutty by itself....BUT you should not do that sort of thing in front of others. Even more so guy friends. You could have waited until you got to a alone spot.
2007-09-17 14:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not slutty. I mean, I probably would have done the same thing, but I wouldn't do it in front of people.
Just tell your boyfriend that the bra was bothering you. If he was truly your boyfriend, he would understand.
2007-09-17 14:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Thao Kun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the lack of modesty you displayed could give the illustration that you are being slutty and that in itself could diminish your preciousness in his eyes.
A modest woman would perhaps ask to stop and use a restroom to conduct such a change.
2007-09-17 14:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes prolly being protective but I dont see whats the big deal as long as your nipples werent showin through your cami.
My boyfriend is somewhat controlling so I learned to ask before I do just to avoid any unnecessary arguments.
2007-09-17 14:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it at all. If it was that irritating you should fix it! Its not slutty at all because you had a legit reason for doing it, you wern't just taking your bra off for fun!
2007-09-17 14:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think so --- so you took your bra off to be comfortable --- big deal --- your boyfriend needs to lighten up and go back to the 60's where ladies where burning their bra's all over the place --- i also suggest he would have less offended if he was not your boyfriend ---- best wishes
2007-09-17 14:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about slutty but definatly not a good idea
2007-09-24 08:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Newtron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋