Can someone tell me how to do this??

Question

How do you keep a relationship with someone alive, and let them feel there is chemistry on the dates?? My bf is a nice guy, his friends are all nice, and his parents met me before and they seem really nice. He's different from other guys I guess, but my mom says that guys want to win the girl's heart, not have the girl be too caring for him. That's my mom point of view on guys. Most of the guys in my school don't like girls who pay too much attention to them. So how do I know which on my boyfriend is?? Should I give him a lot of care and attention, or should I play hard-to-get and let him try and chase me?? Also, how do I let him feel that there is chemistry on our dates??

And by hard-to-get I mean like let him chase me, and act like I'm too busy for him and don't give him a lot of attention. Basically not making him feel special so that he should chase me.

Answer 1

if there is chemistry then both will feel it and if you play hard to get he may not chase as you are (to him) not interested --- i really dont know where people get this idea that being "hard to get" is desirable??? ---- if a lady is not interested then i dont chase at all ---- ignore what people say you do what you feel is best for both of you and have fun