Jehovah's Witnesses. Scenario: An unbelieving husband kisses and carresses his christian wife and engages in

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Jehovah's Witnesses. Scenario: An unbelieving husband kisses and carresses his christian wife and engages in a oral-sex act, momentarily, on his wife. However, she is thinking in her mind that it is his hands and fingers that are carressing her and not his tongue. Would a christian wife still be guilty of wrong doing if her unbelieving husband perform oral sex on her, momentarily, without her knowledge or consent? Would she have to approach the elders even though she was not consenting to the act?

Answer 1

JW's don't allow oral sex???? Really???

Aww, that's sad.

Answer 2

I've been there, done that Sister. I was in my mid 30's when I came into the Truth. Our children were toddlers and my husband had no problems with it at that time. We moved to Texas a few months after I was baptized and for some reason he became a different man, I know, Satan was pulling the strings. He would not allow our kids to go to meeting but made sure he was not home in time for me to go. So, the kids came with me and I got yelled at when I got home for having them out. He trashed my books and mags and I have no idea how many Bibles I had to replace. He was raised Catholic but not practicing. This was years and in this time I said nothing. I just kept saying scriptures over and over in my head while he yelled. I really don't know what he was yelling. Win him without a word, is what I kept repeating in my head. As our daughter was getting baptized, she would study with him and he didn't even know what she was doing. He has been studying with a brother for 2 years now and it's not a piece of cake. He's 65 and very set in his ways. We were married before I came into the Truth. I hope this helped, oh, I've been in the Truth 16 years now. I can't say if he'll ever be but if not, I've already let it go and he's been told I will choose Jah over him any day.

Answer 3

The WTBTS does not set any boundries on what happens in the bed room. It is a personal coscience matter.

There is nothing prohibiting a JW from having oral sex with their partner. This particular topic is not covered in the Bible. However, some feel that this sort of act is reminescent of homeosexual behaviour and find it distainfull.

A good mariage mate will be considerate of what the other partner wants and or does not want. If a certain sex act is repulsive to one partner the other should refrain from doing it.

So as far as the a christain is concerned it is not a sin. So if one partner does not want to engage in such a thing they should calmly discuss it with the other.

You do not have to feel guity from a congregational point of view, but explain to your husband that it is something that you do not personal like.

Answer 4

LMBO!! omg.

First of all, u must have been Extremely bored to think about this question. Second of all, stuff like that is kept between the husbandd and wife. unless her conscious is bother her then she should pray about it, talk to another sister, talk to her HUSBAND. Like one of my fellow brothers here said, The elders is not the police, nor a judge. They are there to help as the bible says.

The bible does not say Thou shalt not have oral sex. but it says that fornication is a sin. and other sexual acts that are not clean. but nothing about oral sex. The wife and the husban have to be loving of each other and know what boundaries not to cross.

I really hope u understand what i am trying to say. Don't listen to tall tales about Jehovah's witnesses.

Answer 5

I think the entire idea of bringing marital sex to anyone else's attention is bizarre. It's no one's business about what happens between a husband and wife. I don't care who these people are. It's insane.
Blessed Be

Answer 6

I am a Christian and my Bible tells me in the book of Hebrews 13 : 4, Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled, but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

Answer 7

Relations between a man and a woman are no else's business. If religions want the state to be separate from the church, then the church should be separate from the marriage bed.

Answer 8

what husband and wife do in their bedroom, is their business.
the question here should be
why is a Christian woman with an unbelieving man?

Answer 9

First off,
Why do you direct this to just Jehovah's Witnesses?
They are not the only ones that know that oral sex is sodomy.


American Heritage Stedman's Medical Dictionary - Cite This Source
sod·om·y (sd-m)
n.

1. Anal copulation of one male with another.
2. Anal or oral copulation with a member of the opposite sex.
3. Copulation with an animal.

Answer 10

First off they are married, so whatever happens on the marriage bed stays on the marriage bed!

Second, why is it anyone else's business?!

Third, you should do some research in The Song of Songs! Look at some of the hebrew wording. It's enough to make Jenna Jameson blush! That is how God illustrates sex AS IN THE CONTEXT OF MARRIAGE. We are to enjoy it as man and wife no longer belong to themselves but to each other!

No the Christian wife wouldn't be guilty of wrongdoing! It's up to her if she would like to continue that way or not. Whatever happens both people need to agree but it's in the context of marriage so God is okay with it!

Answer 11

Oy, NO NO NO.

It seems so many on here see the Elders as police, simply there to be reported to. If she was upset by it she could go to another sister, or could go to the Elders, but it's not like ooooh something naughty happened, I'm in trouble.