Do guys like girls who will make out with them only and not have sex?

Question

I'm 17 and for the past 7 months this guy and I have been hanging out with other friends together, and sometimes to the movies together with or without friends. I HAVE made out with him but have told him I will not have sex because I'm just not ready for that at this time. He says he's not trying to have sex, just make out, but I dont know. He's been texting me alot more lately and when we are alone, I feel like he's trying to get to that point, but I always tell him no and that he needs to make up his mind if we are just friends or does he want more than just friendship (a real relationship). He says he doesnt know. Should I keep making out with him and hope he will see that I WONT sleep with him, or get out now? I'm so confused because he's been chasing me alot more now and I'm thinking maybe he will decide if he wants me or not. Any advice?

Answer 1

Well he wants you, but since he isn't getting closer to you to know more about WHY you won't have sex I think he is just waiting on you to breck down and do it. Also, DON'T assume that having a serious relationship means you sleep with them, espacially since I'm thinking you've never done it before. Try and keep the sex as something special that COULD happen (it well, if your comfrontable enough with the person it is going to happen, you can't fight it, its the comfront level you NEED thou) but the point of the relationship is that your going to live your lives for each other. That aside try and remember friends can make great lovers, but lovers rarly ever become good frineds. And if you feel pressured thats a good sign all they want is to be your lover, be smart, you have so far!