people always got little comments to say like "you lucky you don't have kids", "you don't need no kids", "you shouldn't have kids" and more. it is really making me mad because some people make you feel like you are unworthy if you don't have any.
i am trying to have a baby but they don't know that. should i be worried about there comments?
thank you in advance.
2007-09-17 13:38:36 · 8 answers · asked by Blessed and Happy 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
for example: this weekend my sister that is about 32 weeks pregnant going to say to me "that is why you don't have any kids" because i get excited when playing with my neices and nephews.
2007-09-17 13:49:28 · update #1
I am 23 years old, engaged to my fiancee who I been dating for 5 1/2 years. I am employed as a financial aid assistant. Graduated with my Associate's Degree in Business and working on my diploma in Medical Office (will be graduating in December).
2007-09-18 04:55:21 · update #2
People talk without thinking. They may actually believe that they are comforting you or making you feel good. People should not assume because a woman is pregnant and married that she is happy with the situation, nor should they assume because someone does not have children, they are happy with that situation either. Their intensions are not mean, they are just ignorant. I used to get very angry when someone would say to me, "when you have children..." I thought, who are you to decide that I'm going to have children? I would just respond, "what do you mean, WHEN?" that usually shut them up. Perhaps a, "I'm an adult and can decide what is best for me." would shut them up and get your point across.
2007-09-17 13:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally ignore any of those sorts of comments, to be honest I wouldn't trade anything in the world for my little miss, she is the centre of my life and I love her to pieces. There is nothing in the world that can come close to the little smile I see on her face when I walk in the door when I come home from work. Sure we have our difficult times where she gets a little cranky or naughty but I still wouldn't say anything like that.
2007-09-17 20:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who say things like that are probably feeling stressed, overwhelmed and unable to cope with their kids but I thank God for my precious children. Motherhood is an honor and a privilege that brings wonderful rewards in more ways than you could ever think or imagine.
Go ahead and live your life anyway you choose and never allow negative people to bring you down.
2007-09-17 20:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people say those things cause their tired or worn out from takin care of their kids cause it does wear you out sometimes but its worth be exhausted and tired to have the lil ones running around and smiling at you half the time you forget why you were made when they smile lol.....Next time someone looks at you and says "your lucky you dont have kids" look at then and ask "and why is that" the look of shock on their face will make it worth asking lol
2007-09-18 02:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by beach_b1tch_mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl who cares what people say. people will be people. they can say alot of crap(sorry) i am 20 and i am 13 weeks 2 pregnant. and could not be happier. i have my hubby with me. and this is the best thing that could have happend to me. i went to my doc. and we heard our baby's heart beat and we saw our lil angel move around. it was very sweet knowing that its ur baby,,, BABY"S ARE GOD"S BLESSINGS> DONT EVER LISTEN TO WHAT PEOPLE SAY AB THAT> JUST DO WHAT U THINK IS RIGHT> IF U THINK UR READY TO HAVE A BABY> THEN GO AHEAD>> Good luck>>
2007-09-17 20:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by nata_k_wa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! Some people are just rude, if you think you can be a good mother then go for it and don't listen to those jerks.
2007-09-17 20:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same as you do or the other your not ready for them they arent you they dont know its so frustrasting
2007-09-17 20:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by krissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT'S UP TO YOU . CAN YOU AFFORD ONE AND HOW OLD ARE YOU ? HAVE YOU FINISHED SCHOOLING AND HAVE A DEGREE ?
2007-09-18 04:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋