My friend's bf broke up with her and now he asked me out. I've been secretly wishing that he would ask me out but I didn't think it would actually happen. The worse thing is, she still likes him and wants me to help get them back together. I don't want to lose a friend but he really seems to like me and we are great friends. PLEASE HELP ME! ASAP
2007-09-17 10:54:04 · 14 answers · asked by Rockstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chiks b4 *****!!!! and i mean that literally, im not insulting that guy. just stay out of it. do not go out with him, do not help her get them bak 2gether. that happened to one of my close friends last year. she went out with her bffs BF 2 weeks after they broke up, and everyone that used 2 talk 2 her stopped b/c they thought she was a hoe. the guy? nothing, all his friends were like "way 2 go man!! shes hott!!" i would not recommend doing it unless you are willing to lose a friend over.
ps i didnt mean 2 make it sound like i was calling you a hoe, cuz i wasnt. good luck sweetie, you need it=]
2007-09-17 11:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First think about it....is going out with this guy worth losing a friendship? will you even bee with him that long?I wouldnt risk losing my friendship though...maybe tell her that there are other people and give her some time and maybe she will get over him.and if she does get over him tell her the truth that you are starting to have feeling for him and that you found out that he has feelings for you and see how she takes it. if you can tell that she is made at you for liking him just explain that you cant help your feelings for him and that you supported her while she was going out with him and that you would like her support now. obviously if they broke up they were not ment to be together....Good Luck (:
2007-09-17 11:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Izzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to which relationship is more important to you. You know that if you date the guy your friend will probably hate you. You need to decide which person you want to keep in your life, but just remember that relationships can be harder to keep and it might not last long with him, and then you've lost your friend and the guy. You should just consider carefully how important your friend is to you and if you care about her, be true to her.
2007-09-17 10:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by twasbrillig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy? thinking about a dating a guy who dumped your best friend! i can assure you, you won't be best friends for long if you go out with him. you know how she feels about him and it is selfish of you to try to get with him now, especially knowing what he's doing to your friend. AND, he'll do it to you too. no question. do you really want to do that to your friendship? you will lose both of them in the long run.
2007-09-17 11:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 09:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend what she thinks you should do. And make a point of telling her that your friendship with her is more important than her x-bf.
Boys will come and go.... Best friends are hard to come by.
Remember that.
2007-09-17 11:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG! Unless your head over heels madly in love probaly going to marry the guy and have kids - its not worth losing a friend over a guy.
2007-09-17 10:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO ! unless your madley in love with him, but i would talk to your friend first - i wouldnt want to lose a best friend over some guy. tell him that you wouldnt do that to a best friend, and if he really likes you he'll understand and wait.
2007-09-17 12:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this: Your friends are more important than boys even if they're hot they still could be a player u know what i mean.
2007-09-17 10:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by hellokittycutie1199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All's i got to say is never go out with your bestfriends boyfriend that's a no no!!!! and its wrong and you and the guy can stay friends. its better if they're both your friends
2007-09-17 10:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋