do u think sleepin wiv some 1 on the 1st night is bad
2007-09-17 10:39:27 · 32 answers · asked by michelle B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no!
2007-09-17 10:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Stripper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are pretty young judging by the question not to mention your grammer but we get the point. If you are in High School then this sorta thing is the norm almost, the fitting in, the experimenting, the want for attention and affection from the wrong people, the rumors and the "OH GOD I didn't think I could get this virus!" etc. Just use protection and brace for the unavoidable "oh you'd sleep with anyone then!" remark if you really like the person.But sometimes giving in on the 1st date can show how much you really are into that person, doesnt mean anything else at times though that saying, "the first impression is a lasting one" so just be carefull, it seems these days you can get anything from a virus to some psychotic stalker even when you're trying to play your cards right :S
2007-09-17 10:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Beefcake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are female. I have not heard many men ask the same question. Of course, it is not bad when you consider what goes on in the world. It can be a very kind or spontaneous act. BUT consider why you are asking this question? Do you think it is bad? Then do not do it. Has someone made you feel bad about it? Why have they done that? What is their angle? Has your upbringing or your religion made you feel bad about it? If you feel bad about it do not do it. Someone today mentioned protocol to me. There is a protocol attached to most of the things we do. Personally, I think it is good to follow the not straight-away rule simply because it amounts to taking care of yourself by giving yourself time to think. At the same time this equates to etiquette which does not take account of passion and spontaneity. However, society is not fair to women in it's attitudes and you have to be a very tough lady to do what you want when you want. Compromise is the best answer but only when you have considered properly. Alcohol consumption has to be considered, age, maturity, your most recent experiences in relationships ie., have you just been hurt, have you just been dumped by someone you cared about? If you want a one-night stand now and again, acknowledge that as a mature and responsible lady who is entitled to do that if you want to but be careful and carry a condom and don't expect a call the next day.
2007-09-17 11:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by susan914028 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping on the first meeting is fun. But it waiting till a mutual attraction and love for one another is much better.
I have never had a lasting relationship with any woman that I slept with on the first date. All of my relationships that I waited over a month or two became lasting relationships. Even as they married and I married over the years. I am still close to those with whom I waited.
So I guess it really depends upon your goals.
2007-09-17 10:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too risky. One night of pleasure can be a life time of pain. Condoms are not 100% which im pretty sure ur aware of.
Pregnacy, stds, salica can carry some diseases that can be passed that way. hiv is actually small enough to fit through these micro holes in condoms. GET TESTED! Be safe rather than sorry
2007-09-17 10:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by louise23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If both parties are not emotionally attached, then do the damn thing. Just make sure you use protection. Otherwise, if there is a potential "fatal attraction" type situation or if one party will be hurt, then one night stands should be avoided at all costs.
2007-09-17 10:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Fly girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that having sex on the first night has alot of risks to take. consider the following before making this decision...
1. are you ready to have your rep. ruined? and is it worth it, because if he tells, you will be known by many bad and hurtful names.
2.do you know his sexual history at all. stds are definetly not worth the risk.
2007-09-17 10:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by theFlyingPinkDutchgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah...i think so! I would never sleep with someone on the first night cause then they might think your easy or just end up dating you because they know you will give it up or something. But thats just me and I know I would never sleep with someone that I didn't at least date. I don't want people thinking I just give it up to who ever.
2007-09-17 10:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally YES
But Im from the 'old school' as it were...
Today its a completely different ball game, if you pardon the pun!!
2007-09-17 10:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not usually the best idea if you want a quality long-term relationship.
2007-09-17 10:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends I suppose. If you really like this person then no...but if its someone that you really don't care for either way..then why not. One night stands are healthy...just protect yourself!
2007-09-17 10:43:42 · answer #11 · answered by Rican Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋