kk this is wuts up... im 14, 6 feet, somewhat muscular, but i have a slight acne problem and wear glasses. Nobody in my entire school has ever had a crush on me, or has ever gone out with me... im nicer than pretty much all the guys in my schoool and yet the girls always seem to like the jerks that look slightly better than i do! I'm just wonderin wuts up with that?
2007-09-17 10:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by superdupernick12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls (and boys alike) around this age are attracted to what they can see and do not see your inner beauty. Wait for 4 more years. I can gurantee that you will be talking about girls chasing you ;)
2007-09-17 10:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by an ordinary girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I don't wanna sound shallow, but these people are kinda right. Girls usually have crushes on the hot guys. I don't know what you look like so i can't say your ugly or hot. But maybe some shy girl in your school does like you or has had a crush on you, usually shy girls tend to keep it to themselvs. They usually don't go around saying 'omg i like him' I have a crush on this guy, he's not the most attractive, but he's sooo sweet, and funny, that's why i like him. Just try to maybe take a couple more minuets every day in the mirror, DON'T totally change your apparence, never change the way you are just so girls like you. That's wrong. But maybe for your acne problem, if you'd like try some new face wash. What ever works for you. Just be who you are. And just be funny, make the girls laugh. I personally love guys who can make me laugh.
I know i didn't help that much. But just be you.
Dont change youself.
2007-09-17 17:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bridgettee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, not all girls are shallow. I'm 14 too, and a lot of guys say I'm hot and beautiful and whatever, but then all the hott jerk guys are shocked when I don't like them. I'm usually attracted to guys that most girls don't consider hot. Last year I had a huge crush on a guy who wore glasses and had some acne and he wasn't that good-looking, and he had a huge crush on me back. The right girl will come along and like you for you, trust me! Don't worry!
P.S. I bet there are girls that like you and you don't know it! I never tell guys when I like them!
2007-09-17 17:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by †StrongAsDeath† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im srry to say but we grow up in a society (now a days) where looks are sooo important.. and it does have an impact on the way people view you.. at first. And first impressions really do count.. no matter how many people say they dont.. the truth is it does..
My advise to you is if you really want to wow a girl.. Get rid of the glasses... and be alittle more rougher.. roughen up ur hair.. dress baggier.. girls will fly to you like feathers..
Good luck..
Dont change your personaility and dont get lost or caught up in all this.. once you get a girl.. you can return to dressen how u do cus she will start to get to kno the whole you.. not just ur looks..
and people are initially attracted to someone by their looks so.. it does have to initially come to that... personality afterwords..
anwyays good luck to ya!
and dont be a playA AND NEVER CHEAT!.
THATS MY BEST ADVISE.. FOLLOW AND U WILL GO FAR!!!
2007-09-17 17:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how many girls have you asked out? Your description doesn't really say much. Do you style your hair take pride in your appearance? What are most of your friends like? Emo, jocks, nerds? Have you only asked out the really pretty girls? Have you tried what you might consider an average looking girl? Are you sure it's the girls that are shallow?
2007-09-17 17:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be point blank. Some girls like guys with the six pack abs, faces that models are jealous of, and hearts of stone.
Other girls like the guys that are hot but sweeter. With hearts that actually work.
Not all girls are shallow. I promise. You'll find one, I'm not sure how big your school is but I can guarantee that the world is bigger and you will find someone
2007-09-17 17:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young!!!! Is like that when the girls are at that age group. There will be a girl who will like you & once that starts they all would like you. Give it time your just 14 & girls out there in that age group they don't know how it feels to be treated right, they just complain about it.
2007-09-17 17:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by irmros i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound pretty arrogant to me if you think you're nicer than all the other guys in your school. Maybe the girls go for something more than mere arrogance - try showing the nicer side of your personality more.
2007-09-17 17:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are shallow-- but so are you-- you are only considering the most popular girls yourself.
Probably there is a less popular girl right now, who has a crush on you, but figures she doesn't have a chance because you only have eyes for.....
2007-09-17 17:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because them girls in your school go for looks then personality yea so it is abit shallow maybe if you get to know them they might change there mind about you..and they only look slightly..if i meet a cute/fit guy and they arnt a nice person ect i soon change my mind about them..
2007-09-17 17:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋