My ex g/f of 9 years broke up with me about a year ago. Eight months ago she met a felon on parole. Every month since she has been trying to get back with me. She came over July 5 at 3am but didn't have the guts to knock at door. I saw her snooping around. August 11, she text mailed me that she loved me. Alrighty I says, come on over. On the way over she tells me that she is pregnant. Being stupid, by being very much in love with her, I decided to take her back. We made love many times and then she got an abortion (no one else knows, and no I don't plan to tell). The final week we were together she was apprehensive about "us". Why? I don't know. A week later she didn't want to be together. Fine. Two days later she calls about missing "her" baby at the felon's apartment. Ok. She didn't know what to do. I told her to go back to her dad's house. She did. Three days later I heard nothing from her. I looked for her and found her at the felon's apartment.........
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She wouldn't answer her phone. The night before we were talking about what we would do with our kids. Anyway, the following day she called the cops on me for bother her without me knowing where she was. No one knew where she was. So, I called the my city cops and filed a No Trepassing letter and mailed it to her. She did the same. She called the cops on me before for no reason.
Do all of you think it is finally over? I hope so. I don't want someone after being the great friend and lover after all this time.
2007-09-17 09:14:32 · 4 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Welcome to the world of insanity.
We have all had those relationships and it is hard.
When you love someone you will do stupid things to keep them.
To answer your question "Do you think it is finally over?".
I can tell you from experience with my poor ex girlfriend, who I loved so much I overlooked her violent mood swings, insane spending habits and cheating on me because she is severely Bi-polar, for an entire year! It will only be over when you say its over.
You need to do whats good for you. Put her in your past and don't answer the phone if she calls. Do not let her get under your skin and do not be tempted to take her back. Don't dwell on her and decide to pick up the phone to "just check on her to be sure she is ok".
Once you do this... it will be over. Than you can heal yourself and move on.
It is hard, I know... I wish you luck.
2007-09-17 09:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Dog Lover 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her it is over, and you want nothing to do with her from this point on. Go to your local PD station and just make a report during regular business hours to cover your butt. If both of you keep involving the cops your both going to get into trouble. Its what they call BS calls and just makes more paperwork. I be more aware of your surroundings tho, considering her boyfriend is a convicted felon.
2007-09-17 18:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kujo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this simple test. Buy a quart of milk. Let it spoil and then place into the frig. One week later, taste it. Has it gotten any better? If not, it's the same as your relationship with her. Learn now or learn later.
2007-09-17 17:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not over til it's over.
2007-09-17 16:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by philosofurrier 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋