I made the plunge and finally went through with getting a frenum ladder (took me six months to get the nerve to do it). Apparently one of my co-worker's sisters saw me at the shop and told her I got a piercing. Now my co-worker has asked to see it. (She has a VHC and her nips done but I've not seen them..she's just talked about them). So, if you were in my shoes, would you show a co-worker an "intimate" piercing if they asked?
2007-09-17 06:10:12 · 12 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Tattoos
I would warn her first. I would be like,
"Uh, sure if you really wanna see. You know I got my... bits and pieces pierced, right?"
And if she still says yes, I would wonder how well I know this person. If we were really close (like been a co-worker with you for a few years, you've seen HER intimate piercings and she was okay with it, or not).
Bottom line; if I felt uncomfortable in any way, I wouldn't.
2007-09-17 07:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it depends on how well you know the co-worker; for me, personally, I'd keep my bits to myself. I know it's not like you're whipping out your cash & prizes for any other reason than to show the piercing, but think about it—you'll be working with this girl every day, with the knowledge that she's seen parts of you that you don't usually just show to everyone.
So, for me, the answer would be no.
2007-09-17 06:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by ashley! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really just depends how you feel about it. If she's really into piercings she'll just be looking at it as a piercing, so you probably don't have to worry what she would think if you showed her. But if you still feel weird about it, best advice is just don't do it! If you feel awkward about the idea now, you'd probably just feel weirder if you showed her. She'll be fine without seeing it. I'm guessing since you've even posted this question you probably don't feel right showing her... so don't! :)
2007-09-17 10:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. That's personal. People shouldn't get piercings to show them off or because they want attention. I have serveral piercings, and the only time someone sees them is if they're showing due to clothing I'm wearing, or if it's someone i'm intimate with.
2007-09-17 06:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her nicely if you could have a look. If she was that uptight about not showing anyone she wouldn't tell anyone.
I had mine done. People asked to have a look and I showed them. It's no big deal.
2007-09-17 19:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by yld1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I wanted to show it to them, I would. If I didn't feel comfortable I'd say "I think thats a bit personal to be showing everyone." and just leave it at that.
2007-09-18 05:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The incredible Iron Vag!
2007-09-17 06:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Phantom Smearer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
heck nooooooooooo only my lover will see and know about it just say you were but ended up not doing it unless you really want to show it off
2007-09-17 06:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they know you have it, then that enough. if they need more. take a damn picture and show them the picture, but not the real thing. that's for someone special (or not so special)
2007-09-17 08:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by no name girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show me yours and I'll show you mine
2007-09-17 06:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋